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cristy
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First happy Valentine's day to all😊 I know this sounds crazy.. but last night my husband decided to help his family move…

First happy Valentine's day to all😊

I know this sounds crazy.. but last night my husband decided to help his family move furniture until almost 2am. He comes back home not in a good mood.. he goes to the bathroom.. I get a message on messenger from him while he is in the bathroom... saying "baby I love you happy Valentine's day.. I hope to see you today.." I confront him and tell him he accidentally sent that to me.. and that he is cheating. We dont even talk like that anymore to each other.

1: he hasn't called me baby in 6 months do to marriage issues nor has he used the word love.

2: I live here with him.. why would he hope to see me today?

3: he is trying to cover it up by saying that was his way of apologizing to me. I smell a rat.

Am I over reacting?

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mrs.watkins4715

Haley Watkins

Мама троих детей

I think he was trying to cover it up because if he was in your bathroom why would he say I hope to see you today

deleted-user

deleted-user

He is cheating.

michaelsmommy17

melissa

That def sounds weird and suspicious

. Im sorry you are going through this😔

mommy.to.a.princess

#1Mommy

YeAh I think he’s cheating if he said “hope to see you today” clearly U live with him and see him all the time soo yeah that don’t make sense and plus he could of jst told u in person instead of a text but that text must’ve sent to u by accident ...

mommy_to_4

Robyn

Definitely sounds like he's cheating. So sorry honey.

laniejay

Lanie Jay

Woman's intuition is rarely wrong.

xmoonxkissedx

M H K S

Yeah, sorry. It sounds like hes cheating.

bigmama18

Yo mama

Not even a good cover up lie. I’m sorry. He’s definitely cheating.

missheatherbaby

Heather

Definitely cheating.

queenmeeks

Queen Meeks

He’s definitely cheating. Sorry girl.

carmek

C.L. Antro

Yikes, that's not looking good. I would trust your gut on this one.

ty_no_ki_love

Sara

Oooh that sounds like he's cheating cheating... 😪

cams

Cams

Yep. He’s a cheating scumbag.

theycallmemommy

Steph

That doesn’t sound good hun. I am sorry!!! If he lives with you, he would see you and why text you that and not tell you in person.

xryztalroze

XryztalRoze

You should have replied to his text to see where it leads.

I see everyone elses responses and feel much the same, but I also know I have sent texts to my husband when we are both at home saying something similar or telling him that I miss him bc we barely get to see one another even when at home at the same time due to him working, our chores, side jobs, the babies, and more. He has also texted me. Rather than jumping to conclusions try to sit and talk to him. And if he is then make a decision. I wish you the best regardless.

gecko_mom

🦎 Gecko Mom

Yeeeaaah.. that sounds suspicious as hell. I would probably drop the convo for now and look for other evidence to verify if he won’t come clean. -.-

wallflowerrose

Lauren

He's cheating. I'd think twice about sleeping with him again. Seeing as your pregnant, you don't want to be at risk of getting STDs from him if he's sleeping around...

babybert16

babybert16

this is rough. Reading back on your posts.... yes he is cheating... yes he is a shitty partner. It is time to move on.... you deserve better. The timing is horrendous but would you rather go out on your own or go through the new born phase with someone that doesn't give a fuck? I'm so sorry you are going through this but he is a cheating shit head and doesn't give a fuck....

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