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Loe
Loe
Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (28 нед.)

I really don’t want to be ungrateful but I feel like everyone is only buying us baby clothes as…

I really don’t want to be ungrateful but I feel like everyone is only buying us baby clothes as gifts for my shower. I made a registry for a reason cause I don’t need any clothes but there are other great things that are inexpensive that I really could use. I feel like a jerk.. I just know I’m going to end up returning everything and just getting the things from the registry that I need. I feel ppl hear baby and just buy clothes.. I’m incredibly grateful anyone would even take the time and buy us something but I wish they’d listen to what we are actually needing instead of what they want to buy🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️... Am I wrong to feel this way!?

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mychemicalshaymance

Shay

In all honesty they don't even have to buy you anything.

People rarely buy from registries from what I've seen. I'd just ask for gift cards if you're just going to return what people spent money on.

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harloeagain21

Loe

Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (28 нед.)

I honestly am not expecting them too and did write in the invite gifts are not required but I did made a registry b/e ppl asked.. I just wanna celebrate this new little life

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mychemicalshaymance

Shay

they'll always ask and go with clothes anyways sadly. I honestly don't expect much of people anymore 😂

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nahizabri

Jessenia Jessenia

I agree with you:)

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tailsofmomme

Cotton

Мама двоих (младенец)

Same here I didn’t get one thing on my registry smh people have no respect or what u want or need they do what the hell they want to do smh

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harloeagain21

Loe

Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (28 нед.)

I’m so happy I’m not the only one

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mychemicalshaymance

Shay

In all honesty they don't even have to buy you anything.

People rarely buy from registries from what I've seen. I'd just ask for gift cards if you're just going to return what people spent money on.

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harloeagain21

Loe

Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (28 нед.)

I honestly am not expecting them too and did write in the invite gifts are not required but I did made a registry b/e ppl asked.. I just wanna celebrate this new little life

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mychemicalshaymance

Shay

they'll always ask and go with clothes anyways sadly. I honestly don't expect much of people anymore 😂

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nahizabri

Jessenia Jessenia

I agree with you:)

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samneal

♡Samantha Neal♡

Мама троих детей

No you're not wrong to feel that way! People are just cheap now a days sheesh lmao

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harloeagain21

Loe

Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (28 нед.)

Lmao that is true... I have the cheapest things in there too.. could be spending way less than what clothes cost honestly. I’m not expecting anything tbh

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maddiesmommy16

Kourtney

All I got was mostly clothes and we had plenty already and we got like 2-3 things off my registry. I was so thankful they got me anything because they didn’t have to. I still kept everything and didn’t return any of it.

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harloeagain21

Loe

Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (28 нед.)

the shower is in 9 days and not a single thing from the registry has been purchased so I’m guessing I’m getting clothes... Least you had everything you needed an could just keep it all lol

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maddiesmommy16

Kourtney

nothing on my registry showed as bought but I did get some stuff off of it. I think people forget to tell the cashiers it is for a registry and so it stays on your registry. I hope that is the case and you get at least a couple of things off of it.

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harloeagain21

Loe

Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (28 нед.)

me too!!! So so much!! Glad I’m having this shower early so I can at least get situated after lol

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sofie321

Sofie321

Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года)

I don't see anything wrong with returning it....you know what the baby needs...don't feel bad.

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harloeagain21

Loe

Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (28 нед.)

Thank you for saying that. I do feel bad but I really really don’t need clothes

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del_1566752710_mommytoonico

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This was me too it was to the point I had to take all clothes of the registry.I think it’s a go to because before I got pregnant and actually had to think about all the stuff a baby needs I would brings clothes as my baby shower gift.

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harloeagain21

Loe

Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (28 нед.)

Girl me too!! It’s gotta just be a mindset and then you actually have kids and realize it lol.. I always buy off the registry or things I know I would need

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cowgirl2790

If You Know, You Know🤷🏻‍♀️

Not at all. You don’t need that many clothes in the beginning. Exchanging it for things you’ll actually use is better then the baby growing too fast and never getting to wear every outfit you were given.

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harloeagain21

Loe

Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (28 нед.)

Thank you so much for saying that. I still feel like a jerk. I’ll be grateful for anyone thinking of us but I have so many clothes from so many ppl already that I don’t even kno if he’ll wear all of these lol

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cowgirl2790

If You Know, You Know🤷🏻‍♀️

I guarantee no one would be offended by you exchanging something. If they are, well then that’s just silly. But I think people understand that kind of thing.

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mommyof1beauty

Shayla

Nope. I felt the same way. And now my daughter has a ton of clothes. Most of which she isn’t going to get to wear. My daughter was born in October. So why buy her summer clothes in a size 0-3 month?? It’s not summer and it’s cold. People don’t think about stuff like that. And you’re right, they only buy what they want. I don’t think you sound selfish at all. You sound realistic

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harloeagain21

Loe

Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (28 нед.)

Realistic yes!! That’s exactly what I was hoping I sounded like.. tho I do still feel like a jerk.. These kids grow so fast! I still have clothes from my daughter that she never wore cause they either never fit for the months/seasons or I just had too many.. It’s bad cause we are so unprepared rn and I could really use the help with some of these items. Body wash, diapers, wipes... the realistic gifts.

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milnera2014

Amanda

Мама четверых детей

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doubleksmommy

Amber☄

Мама двоих (1 год, 12 лет)

I made a registry for nothing cause people don't want to read or just want to get you what they want regardless. I had to return or exchange so maybe things cause I had doubles or didn't need 😒

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harloeagain21

Loe

Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (28 нед.)

Oh wow.. I’d feel awful if I got something for someone that they didn’t want. I just follow their wishes or give cash lol

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sofie321

Sofie321

Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года)

I love giving cash as well...mom and dad know what baby needs.

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candacerenee

candace

I have so many clothes I don’t think I have to shop for any until my daughter is like 3 years old so I know what you mean

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a.mama22

A

Мама двоих (младенец)

I feel ya! This is one of the main reasons we didn’t tell anyone the gender! We didn’t get any clothes doing it that way. People just bought from our registry instead.

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harloeagain21

Loe

Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (28 нед.)

Well shit that is the best idea ever... I wish I had known that lol

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