I would just like to clarify beforehand that I live with my mom and pay minimal bills...yes I know, lucky me. Now for my question, is 2 months after my baby is born too early to plan to go back to work? 😬🤷🏽♀️ I’ll be pumping and I know I’ll miss his tiny self but I’d like opinions please
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Do you have to go back or just wanting to? If it's not a must spend as much time with your newborn as you can. They're only little once
I love this. No I don’t have to, just feel like I should contribute to the new baby expenses as much as possible. but my SO gets 4 months paid off so either way baby will be cared for
@taylor.bush29 maybe consider if all of your bills will be taken care of while your SO has off and how much time your job will allow you. It would be considerate to go back to work if even the small amount of bills that you normally do pay won't be covered.
@massgirl, I work at jimmy johns so I’m just going back when I want
Some people only have 6weeks off. So 2 months is good. I went back after six weeks with my daughter. And she was EBF. So I pumped a couple times at work before I even went to work. The hardest part was being away from her though. Even though I knew she was in good hands with her daddy I still missed her dearly
Were you jealous at all having her be with daddy and not you? 😬😭 he has 4 months paid paternity leave and I don’t get anything!
@taylor.bush29, no, not at all. We knew we were going to have another one back to back and in a matter of months to a year I was going to be a Full time SAHM. So I was trying to enjoy working before I had to quit my job lol
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Overall whats everyones thoughts on this. Me personally I dont mind lgbt .but to teach it I feel like is a waste . I can teach my own children that if they ask or even wanna know
Hey I’m 26 with two children #myfirstpost
Okay I’ll be real and explained why I joined, I didn’t know I could be looked up or anyone would actually see this post, I was informed someone I know has been stealing pics and I came to look and see what’s going on if any of mine were on there or anyone else I knew. I just typed until it let me post since it was required before I could look around on the app.
Should I let my x know when labor starts
Will your Mom be in the delivery room?
My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
Whenever your ready I went back to work at five months had awful anxiety quit my job and didn't go back till she was 1. That time it was so much easier. (that's when you don't have to go back asap) maybe try part time at first and see how it goes some people have no problem going back. Just ease into it.