Do any of your mans have a problem with following boundaries?

I like to put it all in just one word to be honest, and thats no chores get done, anymore. Also time is wasted in everything. To me it's just nasty and i get home from appointments and the hospital with Esther just to see how dirty everything is. Yes, i realized last night I have high expectations, but he could have at least put the dinner away i made the kids, that they so called didnt want, or putting pjs on the boys, and brushing thier teeth. Instead all the dishes were left out, clothes were still in the dryer, not put away, and he was just laying there, allowing the kids to watch videos on my phone. I was indeed fed up, and I let him know...my daughter has rsv and im just worried about her right now. I have to go back and forth to appointments. Then work today, also something else that im in. I told him i felt like a slave being treated this way

Like don’t touch this or that?

Ohhhh like routines and rules/expectations?

No but that's cause he works night shift.

Cleaning, helping with putting pjs on their kids at night, picking up their toys

What boundaries do you mean