When I was single and dating (no child of my own) I didn’t want to meet someone’s child until closer to 6 months of dating and exclusively dating. I feel that’s when you know if things will work out for awhile or not.

We done had our first date and all. We been talking about a month now. Because of how far he is for work and how my crazy scadual for work is we don’t get to see each like we would like but we talk everyday. Also my ex and me have an agreement that we meet the person before they meet our child. My ex has went through 2 girls in the last 4 months and tried to hook up with me inbetween them after we broke up 4 months ago but we were on and off again for 8 months after he called off our engagement. I don’t want just anyone around my kid now his new gf seems ok I don’t have no bad vibes off her but then again I had a step mom who didn’t show her true colors till after my dad moved in with her. My daughters birthday party is coming up and I am really liking this guy I am talking to and a part of me wants him at the birthday party but that would only put us talking about 2 in half months