I was thinking on a thought of do I cut people of too easily. (I thank a commenter for this)

I was thinking on a thought of do I cut people of too easily. (I thank a commenter for this)

Ideally u give people chances over and over. I mean I lived that life. I have always been forgiving.

Yet the moment I started my family I am a new person. I have five friends with the same ideals. I have only one grandparent from my side for my daughter And no great grandparents (they live).

I have dealt with blatant disrespect of me my way of thinking, the way I raise my child, the way I worship my husband, my husband being disrespected our entire relationship....

I can not teach my children to be one way and I act another. I struggle everyday with doing what I say and meaning it, being consistent. The one thing I haven’t f’d up yet is my temperament with it comes to my family. I will tolerate a lot and I definitely try to fix it before abolishing it. I’m very vocal so u know how I feel I ask u to fix it and give u options. Don’t look at me like I’m the devil because my standard is above yours that I won’t go against what my husband and I agreed on for our family because everyone does sometimes. That not me nor will it ever be.

I am loyal to a fault and I have very big issues with betrayal.

I am very patient and understanding and hopeful but like anyone else I have a limit. When i reach it i make a conclusive decision and I don’t go backwards because I will not teach my children it’s ok to go back on their word.

People I cut off I miss everyday but 90% of the time its family I knew my entire life. What ever memories my child has with them will live forever but I will not indulge them again.

So do I cut people off too easily? No, not all it takes time for me to make peace that whole idea , because I refuse to regret that decision so I will do whatever I can to avoid it.