So after talking last night, my husband now said that he's not sure if he even wants to try to fix…
So after talking last night, my husband now said that he's not sure if he even wants to try to fix our problems because it's always my fault. I can't be a good housewife because I'll only be good enough for a month or two and then it starts all over again and when he sees it, he pulls away from me and that makes me worse and then it gets so bad that we fight. But apparently I'm nothing but a pack rat to him even though most of our stuff is either his or our daughter's. But still, because I don't want to let go of a few things from my dead grandmother who helped raise me, that makes me a pack rat. Having sentimental value to objects is apparently very wrong to him. And since we don't have money and our families won't really help us, he's wanting to sleep in the other room for the next few nights and just see how he feels. He did say that he's put up with all this for so long because he loves me, but now he's just not sure if it's worth it anymore. Even with a baby on the way and our daughter.
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He is cheating. Please realize it’s not you, it is him. I promise. These are manipulative behaviors a cheater displays. He’s trying to make you feel bad but don’t, just leave him! You deserve sooo much better than this👌🏻
🖤Loving My Boy's🖤·
Мама двоих (8 лет, 9 лет)
I am so sorry to see what your going through I will be praying for you and your babies I would say please leave him before it gets worse but yet do what you think is best for you and your babies 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Chels Z·
I agree with everything @tattoomamaxo, said! You are NOT the one with the problem and he is acting manipulative. You and your babies deserve so much better.
Page Samantha·
Dont let him fool u he doesnt sound like he is being faithful. my fiance acted this way towards me just one day realized nothing was good enough anymore and the one time he has ever screwed up in our relationship for 4 years he cheated on me and the way he acted during that time i have never seen in him before. Sometimes u jutlst have to let people go and if its meant to be yours it will come back.
Mandy·
This situation is only going to get worse. Please put yourself and your children first and stop trying with him. You are not the problem he is. He's manipulating you and soon enough he'll start gaslighting you. Start forming a plan to leave before you're caught off guard and he leaves you high and dry with two kids
BMAMA·
No hun he's coming up excuses because he is being shady. He is shifting the blame on you to avoid admitting he is doing things behind your back. Sleeping in the other room gives him more leverage and control to continue texting other women and possibly an easier escape route out of the home. This is not about you. The guilty party will ALWAYS shift blame and try and convince their victim they are the cause. Get rid of him! ❤
Amber☄·
Мама двоих (1 год, 12 лет)
Leave him. He's talked to other women, cheated I'm sure, talked to your "bestfriend" behind your back, belittles you and making excuses after excuses.... time to let his ass go! He will not change. You deserve so much better!
Rikki🌙·
Like I have said, he is trying to break you down and make you feel like nothing. He's the one cheating and ruining the relationship. Leave his ass.