Ffs so all day I’ve been hearing oh it’s gonna be hard with a new born and a toddler I’m like ffs.. why do others like to tell u how hard it is with a new born and toddler instead of telling us how amazing it is.. 😞 like ffs I know it’s not gonna be a walk in the park
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🙈🙈😂😂 thanks hun I think the lack of sleep is making me worry 😂😂😂 I’m kids free for a good couple days and I still
Can’t seem to sleep lol.. they go they’re dads and I miss them 😂😂😂 they come back and I realise why I needed a break 😂😂😂 I don’t win
Do you think? I'm so used to boys now (always wanted a girl before having any kids) I worry I wouldn't be able to handle a girl! 🤣
No way 🙈🙈🙈 I find my boys energetic 🙈🙈 but hey saying that I don’t have a clue what I’m doing with a daughter 🙈🙈 hopefully she’s just a calm child 😂😂😂 but I’ve heard different
@leanne2016 I looked after my friends little boy for 2 days and nights.
Id never had experience with a little boy lol... Like changing them... It was honestly not any different ha. Apart from him having a penis and having to make sure it was pointed down etc :)
As for girls Maya is chilled, shes very very well behaved. No terrible 2s or tantrums etc.
Head ups...Girls can have mini periods after birth..Maya did :)
Also when they do a poo...wipe down, And poo gets in the labia so wipe down there :) thats really all the pointers i have and thats different with changing them xx
@leanne2016 Use a new wipe/cotton ball every wipe..especially if going near the labia/vagina xx
Haha yeh we've been talking about trying for no3 and I have a gut feeling we'd be having a 3rd boy. I have to mentally prepare myself for that I think!
🙈🙈🙈🙈 literally I didn’t actually prepare my self for having a 3rd Boy i just hoped for a girl.. if only it was that easy usually... but I wouldn’t of been prepared for another boy literally 😂😂😂 and I swear I though it was just me and a boy thing but boys are soo energetic and I feel they need loads of more attention 🙈
I actually found it easier in some ways because I'd had a baby before so knew a little more what I was doing if that makes sense 😂 Like with one two or three kids there are good days and not so good days! Everyone would tell me 'You'll never be on time again'. I never understood that but then I'm a bit of an organised freak that way! 🤪
😂😂😂😂😂no way yeah I guess even when we don’t have kids we have good and bad days 😂😂 just when we got kids we can’t exactly go to bed and say fuck the world and start again tomorrow 🙃 my boys are so energetic this time I’m having a girl so I’m hoping that it won’t be such a mad house and it’ll be that little calmer... 🙈 I think I’d lose my head if I had a house full of energetic boys 🙈
Don't listen to other people hun you will be fine ☺️ xxx
It's actually not too hard once you've got into a good routine. I had the same, & with 2 others people kept saying "I don't know how you'll cope". But I do just fine. My two youngest have one nap during the day together, Olivia has 3 naps all day and Freddie has one. The rest of the time it's pretty easy. Don't forget new borns sleep alot so on that part you'll find it much easier and when it gets harder you won't even notice because you'll be so used to it. I was terrified about having 2 under 2 but I don't think it was any harder then having a 4 year old at school and a new born! x
😂😂😂 true, it’s all about the routine, my 2 year old is in part time nursery so that kind of helps me there 3x a week till school holidays but your right new borns sleep loads so I’ll be able to give toddler more attention and get things ready way in advance
@jodiedillon3, literally must be the most annoying frustrating thing I don’t know why people have such negative comments on the situation x
@leanne2016 I know what you mean it makes me so mad because I don't see why they are so concerned because it wasn't there choice 🤷♀️ who gives a dam anyway because we know what's right for our families and we K ow we can do it 😁 x
@jodiedillon3, yep most definitely we obviously know what’s coming and how to get into the routines coz that’s all it is, as long as there’s a routine it’s not so bad
Oh my gosh just reply I know it will be amazing! So please don’t tell me that...it will shut them up. Trust me!
Trust me the age gap you have is totally fine!
Hun the only “hard” part for me is getting about but you drive so your all set 😂 you’ll have your own little routine in no time and when you sit back looking at them all the feeling in your heart is just insane surrounded by love 24/7 xxx
@leanne2016, No hun I deleted everyone a while ago then decided to stay lol xx
Ive got a toddler the same as you and a newborn, its only hard being tired, theyre both fed and dressed by 9 sometimes earlier, theyre both bathed and ready for bed by 8, its so rewarding watching my toddler with the baby, i dont regret one bit of it, ignore them hun xx
You will always have your good and your bad days, but did anything or anyone ever make you as happy as your kids?
I had this too. Like “your not going to able to leave the house easily anymore” “enjoy your sleep while you can” “ no more holidays for a while” like it’s a bad decision to have a baby. But in reality I’ve found so much fulfilment in just caring for my little chap and you take it as it is. Yes it’s hard work but the rewards are worth every struggle! Don’t listen to the negative ninnies, Just know you got this! 💁♀️ x
Not exactly a walk in the park with just a new born is it lol. Ignore them hun, not long to go now! Bet ya well excited xx
I know but now I can’t even stop thinking how hard it’s actually going to be 😞... so the excitement is no longer there so jarring
@leanne2016, aww don’t let them put a damper on it! Your goin to be fine! Plus you’ll have lil man I bet he’ll try and help once his baby sister is here lol. Come on hun think of all them new born cuddles ya gonna be getting, them magical moments 💖 it’s always hard but it’s worth it xx
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I actually find more you have easier it is 😂😂😂yer you get them bad days but ppl with just 1 do to lol enjoy it I love a challenge 😁