Is it just me or do other people have problems trusting there SO with money or your bank card.and he…

I'm not married. So we don't share one.

We both are control freaks in a way. That's where we tend to aruge the most. But I think it's good how one person handles one thing and they handle something else. So there's no miscommunication on what's being handled

@anicole3285, that doesn’t sound good. Does he work? Why does he need to take your money?

he works and makes good money if he can budget correctly. I'm on SSI and rent out property. I tryed getting a job all because I felt like I needed to because he'd blow what he made and I felt like for me and my kids I needed to. But that didn't last long because within 30 days I had to quit because of my migraines acting up horribly and had to leave early to many days. I try so hard different options because I refuse for my kids to not have what they need or worry about if I have the money for what they need. Feel like I'm in it alone 50% of the time

@leahkay and even if it wasn't for a bill we didn't talk about what to use it for together like we should have. He just took it. Same thing with other money from that day. Didn't even leave my parents house that day and he said he was going to borrow it which was more like have it. I am just lost at what to do

Talk to him about it.all the time. I hide my cards and everything. I have told him we need to go to counseling because of the trust and if I even mention I can't trust him with my bank stuff he'll feel offended. Which he should and open his eyes. But stating concerns and having help with a counselor I think will work best and if not probably nothing will..