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It's ok to say that pregnancy sucks. Because for some, it does. Not everyone has a pregnancy with no symptoms or…

It's ok to say that pregnancy sucks. Because for some, it does. Not everyone has a pregnancy with no symptoms or complications to complain about. If you admit it sucks, it doesn't mean you're not greatful or don't love your baby. It just means you're being honest. The same with motherhood. That sucks sometimes too. That doesn't mean you don't love your kids and don't do your best to give them the world. I know it's old but it popped up in a snapchat story about how people (Especially other moms) bashed Kim Kardashian for being honest about her pregnancy. I appreciate her honesty and not sugar coating everything to seem perfect.

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householdceo

Kristen

Мама троих детей

My pregnancy was terrible. People are always like I miss being pregnant. I did not. I love that she's here.

miss_understood

Shannon

I don't know how ppl go through it multiple times even through terrible symptoms but I guess the outcome is what makes it worth doing all over again ❤

householdceo

Kristen

Мама троих детей

I couldn't do it multiple times. My first was a breeze. My second was awful and I had a stillbirth and that's why I tried again. Would've just been those 2 pregnancies and my step daughter but sense I lost my 2nd I tried again. Another awful pregnancy lol shes my world though.

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madhatter

Madi M.

This. I absolutely adore my miracle baby but as far as pregnancies go mine has been really freaking tough so far. I cry almost daily because I'm so miserable pregnant and have every symptom in the book. June can't come quick enough.

miss_understood

Shannon

I was in the same boat, crying daily from misery! And I'm sure you are thankful everyday for being able to conceive. There were times I would be afraid to tell friends and family how I'm really feeling during pregnancy because I know their response would be: You should be grateful to carry a child! I know I think about my baby everyday and I'm sacrificing so much of myself to prove how much I love him/her 😊

cantdeletebutimgone

cantdeletebutimgone

As I could care less about celebrities she's only human ( I think) my pregnancy sucked hard!! I was sick every day for seven out of the nine months it was painful it was uncomfortable I had to have a C-section. The parenting part of course is stressful and can be a pain in the ass but I absolutely love it!!

miss_understood

Shannon

And it's absolutely fine to admit it sucked hard! Lol because even through all the suffering, it's still the most amazing journey a woman can go through

kennyshakur

Kenny💘

Мама сына (2 года), беременна (28 нед.)

Yeahhh cause mine sucks 😂😂😂

kennyshakur

Kenny💘

Мама сына (2 года), беременна (28 нед.)

But I can’t wait to hold them in my arms

patrycjalai

Patrycja Lai

I will rant to anyone who will listen how pregnancy is the worst time of my life ( for the second time) and that anyone who says otherwise must be on drugs.


I absolutely hate every second of it and would rather give birth 10 times over than be pregnant for another week. With first I was throwing up daily for almost 8 months. With this one I am in an actual physical pain so badly that sometimes I can’t get up or throw up from pain.


I will admit that parenthood is easy on me. I think it’s a breeze with very few off days. Pregnancy - no. Absolutely no. I age 4 days for every day of pregnancy.

miss_understood

Shannon

😢😢😢 hang in there mama! That throwing up and body pain is no joke. And yea I stopped caring about other's opinions. If you ask how I'm doing, I'm going to tell you every detail of how horrible I'm feeling lol

mckinney032589

Ashley McKinney

Мама троих детей

I’m so glad u said this.. ppl just don’t understand what mothers go through pregnant or not..it be very exhausting and overwhelming..I’m struggling this morning but we will get through this ladies

miss_understood

Shannon

Yes! And the added judgment is not really helpful so this is just me letting mamas know it's ok to feel what you feel. We're human!

mckinney032589

Ashley McKinney

Мама троих детей

I was so exhausted this morning I was putting both legs into my pj pants and I fell over 😂

miss_understood

Shannon

😂😂😂 girl! Story of my life

harleyquinn13

Harley Quinn

There is someone here that bashed mothers for saying that being pregnant sucked. That they had no right to complain because some women can’t go through that - while I agree it’s hard for them to see the part that sucked. There is nothing wrong with admitting that growing a baby is exhausted even mentally.

miss_understood

Shannon

It's true that some women can not conceive and that is painful itself but that doesn't take away the fact that some women go through hell while carrying. As humans, we all suffer. No one person's suffering is worse than another's. I feel like we should all empathize with each other's pain instead of trying to debate on who has it worse. ❤

harleyquinn13

Harley Quinn

100% agreed! I even said the same thing to that person and they weren’t having.

miss_understood

Shannon

@littleonemorning I hope she gets to be a little more open minded. That's like someone complaining that they hate their job and another person saying "atleast you have a job!" In life, you experience pain no matter what you have or don't have.

somebodysmama2

Maya 🐝

I can admit that my first pregnancy was cake! But this one?! Is horrible! I love my child but this pregnancy is pushing me to limits I didn’t know I had. It’s okay to not be 100% happy during your pregnancy. Doesn’t mean that you’re not happy.

miss_understood

Shannon

Exactly! Just like a SO that gets on your nerves but you still love him to death and would die without him lol

somebodysmama2

Maya 🐝

right! 😂😂😂. Let me vent a little bit and go about my day.

ataraxia

Des

Being honest about things like this really gives others an insight on the struggles of being a woman or mother

miss_understood

Shannon

Right because sugar coating only downplays what we go through

ladyblauvelt

Allyson Almeda

I absolutely hate being pregnant because I hate the way I feel when I am. Some days I wish I didn't have kids and could go about my life like I want to... doesn't mean I don't love my kids though and always try to be the best mom I can be

miss_understood

Shannon

I made another post about wanting freedom but also realizing your kids add so much meaning to your life! The feeling is there for every mom. I told my friend that I ask my mom to take my daughter once a week so I can have some rest or do things I like to do while hubby is at work. Her response was "I'll choose being with my kids over alone time any day" 😑 Come on lets be realistic...no matter how much you love your kids, you're going to love doing things that make you happy without the kids lol

ladyblauvelt

Allyson Almeda

shit, I enjoy going to the store alone at times with no one to bug me the whole time lol. I love my peace and quiet and I also love having time with just my boyfriend and no kids. Currently we are planning a weekend trip for just us and planning to leave the kids with my mom.

miss_understood

Shannon

That's how it's supposed to be. You NEED time away from your kids to recharge because they take a lot of energy. You have to be mentally well to take care of them. But you know as soon as you see them again, your heart melts and it's like they've been gone for years lol

_alexsmom_

Pocahontas

В ожидании первенца

In the beginning of this pregnancy I didn't know how I'd make it through. I was so mentally drained, sick dehydrated having to go to the ER for IV fluids. Couldn't stand smells because they made me want to gag. Couldn't eat anything, loosing so much weight, having horrible acid reflux. I was like "How do women do this?" I honestly wanted to not be pregnant anymore. And now I feel guilty about feeling that way. But I agree pregnancy is not easy for everyone.

miss_understood

Shannon

Girrrrll I could not leave my bed because of that morning sickness. Felt so helpless and felt even worse that I couldn't do simple things by myself. Dont feel guilty for having those feelings because I'm sure any woman who has experienced that form of morning sickness has felt the same. I just remember feeling like I couldn't go on anymore but somehow, I woke up the next day and did it again.

householdceo

Kristen

Мама троих детей

My pregnancy was terrible. People are always like I miss being pregnant. I did not. I love that she's here.

miss_understood

Shannon

I don't know how ppl go through it multiple times even through terrible symptoms but I guess the outcome is what makes it worth doing all over again ❤

householdceo

Kristen

Мама троих детей

I couldn't do it multiple times. My first was a breeze. My second was awful and I had a stillbirth and that's why I tried again. Would've just been those 2 pregnancies and my step daughter but sense I lost my 2nd I tried again. Another awful pregnancy lol shes my world though.

mrsmord

Lori 🍕

I saw it sucks all the time and i always tell people i don’t sugar coat shit . Pregnancy is SO HARD and changes your body forever . It’s okay to say it’s hard i understand people struggle with fertility everyone has their own problems . I respect that and i feel that for sure but everyone is allowed to complain about whatever is bothering them and tbh growing a human is hard asf. And also delivering them - ruins ur vagina forever .

mrsmord

Lori 🍕

@momof3dragons, i got an episiotomy. Shit was terrible i had no idea it was that bad

householdceo

Kristen

Мама троих детей

yikes im sorry that happened

mrsmord

Lori 🍕

@momof3dragons, i didn’t even know until my check up and my doctor told me lmaooo

del_1614990410_buildyourtable

Deleted

Really is both of them. I am over this pregnancy! I want her out so bad! Being a mom suck too. Like today. This little girl get on my nerves! My oldest is two minutes from me punching him in his face .Yep today but isn't a good day. Wish I had some help. Both of grandparents are deceased. His dad work all day. I cannot just leave my 3 year to play. She might get into something that could hurt her. Plus I homeschool my oldest. So when I say I don't get a break. I never do. Then I am expected to be happy and be mad or have a attitude every. Or not feel like my kids are freaking annoying. Well they are..

miss_understood

Shannon

😂 I don't judge when I see mom's in the store with their kids and they're having a breakdown or a tantrum because I know how hard it is to keep your composure while everyone's waiting to see how you react. I know how it is

del_1614990410_buildyourtable

Deleted

yep.. Me with my kids.. the way I see it if my toddler want to put on a show then let's put on a show..

addysmama81715

Brittany F

Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (23 нед.)

If I could “like” this comment a thousand times I would. The only part of pregnancy I like is feeling little baby move around inside me. Other than that I despise being pregnant... but then you end up with a cute baby 👶 so it’s worth it 😊

miss_understood

Shannon

I'm on the same boat! Every time I get those sharp pains in my hips where I can barely move, I just think about holding him/her one day 😭

mommy_to_4

Robyn

Love this! It's so true. I've had good, smooth, easy pregnancies, and then I was pregnant with my son and it SUCKED. I had morning sickness (more all day) for 6 months straight and I couldn't enjoy my pregnancy at all. This pregnancy I'm not sick, but physically, I'm so sore ALL the time. I'm sure my age has a lot to do with that too tho. For the ones who never have any bad symptoms, that's great! Not the case for everyone tho. Growing a human isn't easy, and it shouldn't be. It's hard on our bodies and plays a big role in our mental health too, not just physical.

miss_understood

Shannon

I didn't realize how many people actually had HORRIBLE pregnancies. Because when I ask around, most people I know say it was a breeze which made me really feel bad as if something were wrong with me. But being on this app gave me so much confidence knowing I'm not alone ❤

mommy_to_4

Robyn

it definitely helps to know others have horrible pregnancies too. Pregnancy isn't easy on everyone that's for sure.

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