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Sarah
Sarah
Мама четверых детей

how do you mommas deal with your spouses or boyfriends that don t do affection or let you know they love you other than…

how do you mommas deal with your spouses or boyfriends that don t do affection or let you know they love you other than they work and take care of the home. I need affection and know that I'm loved but feeling really depressed . we make love and everything but ever since he became a dad we don't do anyrhing like go out or have crazy sex anymore. I don't know maybe I'm being selfish but I want his love in another way.

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aliciaaferguson

Alicia Ferguson

В ожидании первенца

I’ve learned so much from the book Marriage on the Rock. Even if it’s just you who wants to better the relationship, it can happen, when the rest of the world tells you it takes 2. I think I’ve noticed when I feel the way you do, my husband feels the same and wants the attention. So I’ll give him all the attention he needs and he’s the same with me, lovey dovey all the time after that. Relationships are lots of work! But it’s so worth it! You got this girly!

morganmommy79

Marilu

Мама троих детей

I wish I knew. My husband used to be so affectionate and now rarely touches me since the baby. I still nurse her and he says it’s weird and he wants my boobs back 😏 we have sex about once a month. We haven’t been on a date in 2 years or been alone in two years either. Anyway, my husband is selfish and self centered. I’m sure your husband just needs a healthy reminder of what you need. Have you tried writing him a letter? My ex ignored my every request until I wrote it in a heart felt letter and left it out for him to read. He said it really spoke to him.

morganmommy79

Marilu

Мама троих детей

@gimini85, my husband is needy too. He NEEDS affirmation and affection like I need air and water. It’s hard tho when he’s in a mood all the time. 😂 I tell him how I feel and he agrees with me sometimes but it never changes.

professor.hashbrown

Bean

Мама сына (1 год), беременна (7 нед.)

You have to tell him and discuss it

northernmama

Sarah

Мама четверых детей

I do though all the time. he brushes it off or doesn't take it serious. we don t fight or argue much and we do a lot together but keep distance so we don't drive each other crazy I don't know how to tell it another way.

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

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