No it isn’t wrong at all! No one wants the whole world looking at them while they are spread eagle and bringing life into the world. Let them think they’re gonna come in all they want, just tell the nurse on duty who you and do not want there and they will handle the rest. You don’t need stress while giving birth. Stand your ground.

Just don't tell anyone you're at the hospital until after you have the baby. That's what we did, it was just my boyfriend and I. We didn't have visitors until the next day. It was amazing to have that moment to ourselves.

Girl! Do what YOU and your SO want and that’s it!!! Set boundaries, or once you have this baby they’ll be overwhelming.

You tell your dr and nurses and whoever else at the hospital that you do NOT what so ever want them in there! That is absolutely ridiculous. Baby’s great grandmother has NO right to tell you that it doesn’t matter what you want that’s bs. Sorry that made me so mad 😭😂

I appreciate all of this. My boyfriend even woke up still mad about it like its the end of the world.

you can tell the hospital not to tell anyone you’re even there. i did that with my birth just to ensure no one tried to be sneaky and pop up uninvited. you can’t have a party in the room anyways, and it’s not their birth, it’s yours.

I would be petty and not let anyone see the baby until I get home. Fuck that shit.

Wait until it’s time to deliver and have the nurses tell them they can’t be in the room. It’s ultimately your choice.

You can tell the nurses you don’t want them in the room and they will make them leave

It is not their choice. You can even prevent visitors from coming in by telling the staff. So if it has to come to that while you are on labor. Definitely do that. Dont let them ruin that special time by being there if you don’t want them to.

My daughter is the first girl in my SO’s side of the family. So everyone was excited to see her. But we had blocked anyone who tries to come until like 2 hours after i had given birth so we could get that alone time together. After that everyone just started flooding in. Definitely glad we took the time to just enjoy it alone with baby.

Oh geez! Nooo! Stand your ground girl!! It’s you going threw the experience and pain bring a baby into this world it’s your choice!
We didn’t allow anyone at the hospital at all either time. it was our moment with our new baby and our bonding time.

No, your choice! Don't let them tell you what's happening when you have this baby. This is your experience & your child's birthday.

No it isn’t wrong at all! No one wants the whole world looking at them while they are spread eagle and bringing life into the world. Let them think they’re gonna come in all they want, just tell the nurse on duty who you and do not want there and they will handle the rest. You don’t need stress while giving birth. Stand your ground.