I got pregnant with my daughter when my son was only 4 months old. They are a little over 13 months apart. It was not entirely planned and being pregnant with one under 1 was not easy. I don’t feel like one gets more attention than the other one though. My husband is really hands on with the kids too, so we alternate with the kids so they get quality time with both of us. We knew they would be our last two (I have three older step), and so I really wanted them close together.
My youngest two are 12 months and 2 weeks apart. (Didn’t do it on purpose) BUT I do wish they were more spaced out. It is hard, and sometimes I feel bad for my daughter when she wants all the attention