I have no problem with the first half. Hell, I practically push him out the door sometimes, even set up things for him to go out. (There are always exceptions, but for the most part I want him to go out. He doesn't go out often, though, and most of his friends live far away.)

The second, however, I'd have a problem with. I don't have issue with them discussing complaints or problems, as I bitch to my friends when he annoys me, but disrespect is another matter that I would not tolerate.

The first part wouldn’t bother me. But I would be annoyed with the second part

I don’t tell my husband what he can and can’t do. He works hard and he deserves time with his friends. If he wants to go out and get a beer with his friends every now and then, he’s a big boy and he can go do that. He also encourages me to go out with my friends too. I’ve never had to deal with one of his friends disrespecting me.

We both have had our fun so we’re over the party scene but I don’t think I’d be ok with him going out to bars, he wants a drink? He can get a 12 pack of beer and drink it at the house. I’m his wife and have his daughter we are first before any friend regardless of how close they are

I don't tolerate it

Lol honestly I don't i tell him I don't get to go out why does he get to go out ,,, i tell him that we can go together lol

I don't have issues with my husband going out and doing his own thing. As long as he isn't loud or obnoxious when he comes home at night. He isn't the "clubbing/bar type though"
If he goes out it's usually all day in the outdoors 😂

However I would not tolerate a friend being disrespectful to me. My husband best put them in their place or stop being friends with them because if he let's them disrespect me then my husband is also disrespecting me.