Call me crazy but I don't think at 16 you should be planning your pregnancy. Grow up, find yourself,…

i literally stress this to the young females i come across .. im only 18 , got pregnant at 16 & had to get on my own ‘ it’s definitely hard !

Agreed. I know there are exceptions, but babies are EXPENSIVE and make you grow up so quick. I thank god I experienced so much life before having my kids and I was able to have a career and my husband have a career to support our family. It has to be such a struggle, why put yourself into a difficult position on purpose like that?

Got pregnant at 16 NOT planned. and she’s now 4 months old. I can do it. i understand don’t plan a pregnancy that young but if you get pregnant then you need to step up

I had my son at 17, not planned. However I stepped up, got a job, and now have my own house at 19 . I planned this one though. I love being a mama.

Babies planning to have babies scares me.

My sister got pregnant at 14 and became a mom one month after she turned 15. Our mom was an amazing support for her and helped her till she moved out at 17 (by then she had 2 babies) 4 total all boys and now 22, 19 in heaven, 15 and 17. I thank God for her because I saw what she went through and said HELL NO!!! It is scary, hard, stressful, overwhelming, exhausting and definitely not what people think.

Agree 100%!! Some of these young girls only think of it as just having a little baby to hold and not the lifelong responsibility that children are! These babies grow up and need so much more than infants. It’s a huge commitment and I don’t think teenagers are capable of understanding that.

I agree having a baby is hard. I was pregnant at 16 but didn't go through with it . while I am sad about it I am glad in a way because I wouldnt have been a good mom at 16. I'm almost 20 and I have a 6 month old and it's hard. I don't think they realize how difficult it really is.

I agree with this so much! When I was 16 having a baby was the last thing on my mind. All I cared about was getting my license and friends. These young girls see these tv shows and it looks glamorous but the reality is, it’s not!!!

I completely agree! I got pregnant at 17 had my daughter at 18 definitely not planned and I don’t advise it either. I love my kids but If I could’ve waited I definitely would have. They think it’s easy and that they can handle it but once the baby gets here things get real. It’s not about dressing them up and taking pictures, babies need much more than that.

I agree with being 16 and still in high school, but I was 18 and he was 21 when we planned our pregnancy with our son. My now husband and I had our own place, we made good money, and we were stable, successful and knew what we were doing. I was also graduated and out of school. We never once struggled, asked for help, or doubted our decision in any way. We actually never let anyone watch our son until he was almost 2. So, I know not every young mom is as well off as we were, but I think it’s definitely possible if you’re in the right mindset.

I had a baby at 17 and yes😔 my childhood was gone & I had to grow up fast

Wow all these stories are amazing you women are sooooo strong I literally read every one of them I never got pregnant at a young age I planned my out I was 21-22 so that I know I was really ready but wow your story’s

Honestly