So I haven’t slept all night not bc of my son but bc of my bf. He’s been absolutely mean to me last night. He pretended to slap me in the face repeatedly putting his hand on my face and smacking his hand (he wears rings) and he knows what I’ve been through with my previous bfs and I sat there and cried. Then when I was laying in bed trying to sleep i asked him if he could move over a little and he said to me stfu. This is not my bf idk if he’s tired and annoyed or just being an ass. I’ve been up all night crying with my son in my arms trying to make me feel better but the thought of maybe the man I want to marry could be turning into someone I would hate makes me so upset.
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Awe hugs for you,,I know how u feel i am NOT into play fighting at all with all the bullshit i went thru as a young teen mom! I married young and divorced his crazy ass by 21 yrs old.I promised myself I would Never allow anyone to treat me that way. I waited 7 yrs to have another son with the right person.We are together now 17yrs he is more understanding and a good father to our 2 son's we have together and always treated my 1st son like his own...i hate when men act stupid or talk disrespectful to their woman.Tell Him You Won't allow him to talk to you that way(Stand Up For Yourself YOU deserve better !)
Shut the behavior down now. Make an ultimatum and stick to it. You and your son deserve more. No one should ever be allowed to make you feel like less than you are.
Shut it down right away. If you let him get away with it the first time, he'll try it a second time. Maybe the 3rd will be an actual slap. You deserve respect! Demand it, and don't take any bull from him!