My boyfriend and I just had a baby boy! Very happy. But i feel like I'm the only one taking care of him unless my boyfriend has no choice. I just started going back to work but it seems like everything I do isn't enough. We live with his mom because the house we were planning on moving into wasn't ready before I had our son. I do everything for him except dress him and cook for him. I do laundry take care of our son who has pneumonia btw wash bottles clean the room take care of our 4 dogs and go to work. He works concrete I understand hes tired but I'm the one that stays up all night with a sick infant and then going to work the next day I ask for help and I get bitched at that taking care of him isn't that hard. But yet he watches him by himself for 5 hours for first time while I go to work and by 520 when I get home hes falling asleep tired but didn't do anything. Laundry still needs washing and so do bottles the room needs cleaning so I'm the one that has to do it but God forbid I wake him up to help me get his son to sleep. I need advice on how to handle him and get him to help
Girl your gonna burn out, then you’ll be no use to anyone! He needs to step up! This sounds like my situation when kids were babies but difference was I wasn’t working, no idea how you keep it together! Talk to him.