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Hi, My name is Mama B. I am a soon to be first time and single mother. I am 20 weeks pregnant. My due date is scheduled…

Hi, My name is Mama B. I am a soon to be first time and single mother. I am 20 weeks pregnant. My due date is scheduled to be mid April of next year! I am extremely excited and nervous at the same time.

My pregnancy this far has been an up and down roller coaster with my emotions and mental state due to being a single mother. My fear of being a single mother is my child may not get to know her father.

In addition, struggling with my emotions, I work full time as I enjoy my career in law enforcement.

I am looking for a community of women to share my thoughts as they can give me advice to the new adventure that awaits for me in April. #myfirstpost

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del_1546039919_doubleleos

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Welcome to the group, being a single mother is hard but you got this. While you are pregnant just focus on your baby and your own health so everything will go as smooth as possible. Don’t let being a single mother get the best of you because being pregnant and not feeling the love you thought you would feel would turn you into a person you don’t like or your own worst enemy. Just come on here to vent and we will be here to confide in. Idk you but do other things to keep your mind off being a single mother. You could start setting up baby nursery or getting everything you want the baby to have. Think of like newborn pictures, baby first holidays that will be coming up when it’s born. Pregnancy scrapbook. Going to the gym enjoying being pregnant celebrating your bump. Watch YouTube videos on nursery, baby hauls, parenting advice, etc. sorry for the rant

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1sttimemommy01

Mama B

Thank you for your encouraging words. I try to spend time out of the house by eating out with family and friends. The moment when the time end with my family and friends, and I have to come home I become depress. I can't sleep because my mind is clouded with thoughts, the relationship I had with my boyfriend. I keep replaying his words in my head. He abandoned me and his unborn child because I refused to get an abortion and put the child up for adoption. It breaks my heart every day. I can't go a day without crying and I know it's not healthy for my baby.

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del_1546039919_doubleleos

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@britneyholliday, Do the things that I have mentioned because I’ve been in that situation before and I wouldn’t want anyone else to go through it

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1sttimemommy01

Mama B

@doubleleos, I will definitely try them out! Today, I am going to look at baby clothes and get lunch with my mom!

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?