Ive been so down lately... I'm so excited for my girl to be here but with my sister making comments about how I look, my family on Thanksgiving making comments about my weight, and my husband never wants to touch (sexually) I feel like a gross pig... And im really tough on myself about. I know I shouldnt be. But I thing that gets me the most is my husband.. Cause we used to so at it all the time. I get it he doesn't want to hurt me cause ive had so much pressur down there that it hurts sometimes to sit down. Ive told him that its okay and talked to him about it cause he turned me down and I have break down. That was almost 2 weeks ago and he still hasnt even tried so I'm starting to think its not about him being scared to hurt me. Now I think he isnt attracted to me anymore... I'm so sick of crying...
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Early in a the pregnancy it was like once a week or once every two weeks to. But now its been 2 1/2 months.. But that does make alot of sense being more protective than sex driven. But even when I'm straightforward about it nope nothing...
Girl im sorry 😢 it makes me feel a little better knowing that its common.. But still doesn't... I know my husband watches porn but I dont think he is getting it from someone else, just cause of how much he works. Have you said anything to him about it? Ughhh I just dont know what to do....
Im literally in the same boat as you😭💔 its been since before Halloween since we had sex and that hes touched me in any sexual way. Ive cried soooo much too. I read up on it and i guess it can be fairly common. Which made it easier for me for a week or 2. But now that hes turned me down multiple times its making me think that its something more. And it hurts cause i know hes getting his pleasure one way or another. In trying not to think the worst but its hard. Hes on his phone alot more and wont even cuddle or hold me anymore
I read in What to Expect that guys sex drives get 'neutered' a bit when their partner is pregnant. Their testosterone lowers and so does their sex drive, they become protective and not so sex driven. Just know its not you! We didn't have sex for months at the start because of spotting and even now maybe once a week or two weeks. He is more worried about hurting me or the baby than sex, honestly I'm grateful because I'm too tired for sex 😑