Thank you. Yes it is unorthodox and def not something we were looking for. But it happened and we cant deny the feelings and happiness this brings. I kno we will face our share of stigma and such and we will deal with it when the time comes. Thank you for seeing her as the normal busy and squirmy toddler she is. Our daughter will always come first to me and my husband and so her safety is always number one. If anything even a little seems off we will def be investigating it

Same!

I don’t say it to offend you. The pictures and the speed at which he moved in, coupled with how enamoured you both seem to be with him, made me feel quite uncomfortable so I had to say something. I’m glad you’re looking out for her though, it eases my conscience a bit. I’d say just continue to keep a close eye, it doesn’t mean he’s a bad person or anything but you just never fully know someone !

@emmamarch16th I understand that that's why I said I understand ur concern. The thing that bothered me was the judging by the picture and thinking my daughter is uncomfortable. I would never force her to be around someone is is uncomfortable with.

@lillyb, that’s my opinion based on the pictures you have shown

@emmamarch16th I dont kno how falling asleep on him makes her look uncomfortable but okay 🤷‍♀️

We have actually. He wants kids and loves kids. My husband didnt really want a 2nd but was gonna allow it cuz I wanted one. Now he is okay with a 2nd down the road. As for the father me and my husband had to use a donor to get pregnant in the first place so this would actually make things a lot easier for us in that respect. But that's not for a while anyway lol

@lillyb, that’s so interesting! So if an oops ever happened, you would know who the dad is.

@penelope127 oh yes def lol no guessing there 😂 but we r using birth control cuz as much as I want a 2nd I want not daughter to be a bit older lol

That’s what I was thinking. I know they’ve been friends for a while but already a family after a month and a half?

@caiticat. @ek620

Well he already knew my daughter since he was a friend to start with. She knos him as uncle. I kno it seems fast to be a 'family' but I felt the same way about my husband and only my husband until now and we got engaged only 6m into our relationship and have been together for almost 9 years now. Our daughter is a big part of our life and like I said we all hung out before this so he already had spent a lot of time with her before anything.

Not really. He could find men attractive to a point but never could date or be with one until this one. There is just something about him. There was this instant connection. He actually voiced his attraction/crush for him to me first. Me and my husband have never felt this way about anyone except each other before.

@lillyb, got ya. Well I wish y’all the best of luck with everything! Always remember that people will judge, but it isn’t their life to live.

Thank you dear :)♡

@alishap1212, she put her personal business out there. She should expect personal questions. @momofemersonbliss, wasn’t rude.

@bigmama18 @momofemersonbliss @alishap1212

I did expect some questions like this and while it is personal it's not super personal of a question and she wasnt rude about it but I do appreciate ur comment :) I'm open about my relationship (tho we havnt gone fully public yet for some reasons that I'm not going to disclose) tho some questions if thru r too personal I may not answer

@bigmama18, i never said she was rude I just said it’s a bit personal to ask . I would never ask that even thought she put her perineal business out there