If you can’t pay your bills, provide for the children you have, or even buy a pregnancy test. Stop trying to have a…

really? That was rather childish. “My words can get a lot meaner” take that shit somewhere else.

🙄🙄 Alright.

As I said you were in your feelings and took this post a little more personally than needed be.

@littleonemorning, would you prefer me to tell you something else? Trust me honey my words can get a lot meaner, especially if you think something I already said was “hostile” 😂💀

that’s all you can tell me is to mind my own business. Ay. 🤦‍♀️

how about, I was scrolling through and saw there was another pretty hostile comment on this pretty accurate status, one that you didn’t have to comment on either if you were “minding your own business.”

But hey, it’s the internet. If you put stuff out there for the world to see, people will comment on it. Just sayin’.

@littleonemorning, and you need to mind your own business🤷🏻‍♀️ no ones even commenting anymore you’re just bringing it back to light

you clearly got off topic. The conversation here is about whether or not someone can survive on their own and purposely trying to get pregnant. Cause kids are damn expensive. All that was brought up was seeing how much a child really cost. No where was some saying you “wouldn’t be good mother.” That was just pulled out of thin air.

You need to take a step back and get out of your feelings and reread what was written.

@jhalsted1995, and you know nothing about what I know about raising a child. Don’t make it personal with me if you can’t take the same. So go ahead and take your single minded ass and take a long walk off a short pier👏🏻👋🏻

you’re failing to grasp the concept. People who are struggling don’t need to be actively trying to have another child. Holy shit. It’s not hard to understand. And you know nothing of my struggles, so you can shove that comment where the sun won’t shine.

@jhalsted1995, no ones forgotten the topic you’re the one who decided to throw what I know about having a baby into the mix. And trust me honey there will come a day when you have so many struggles people will think you shouldn’t have had your child to begin with. Either way I’m done debating this with you I have more important things to worry about then you’re single minded self

have you raised a child? Have you had a child? Have you seen the bill for giving birth without health insurance? You clearly seem to have forgotten the topic of discussion here. People who cannot care for their children don’t need more children. End. Of. Story.

@jhalsted1995, don’t you dare start saying I have no clue what I’m getting myself into. I know damn well how hard it’s going to be to raise a child. But I know I at least will be a good mother. Maybe you should be a little less worried about what you think I have no clue about and worry about keeping your opinions to yourself 🤷🏻‍♀️ If your entitled to have an opinion so is anyone else

Oh and best don’t say another word about what I know and don’t know about raising my daughter 👏🏻

if you’re actively TTC, can’t pay your bills, or can’t afford a pregnancy test. You need to stop. You need birth control. Having a child never gets you out of a tough situation, especially financially. Sorry not sorry! Jesus Christ. Do you realize how expensive it is to have and raise a child? All of your expenses increase. You clearly have no clue.

@jhalsted1995, either way if she’s trying to have a baby that could be what she needs to get herself out of whatever possible situation she could be in. You’re still no one to say if their financially stable enough to have a child or not

I’m talking about women who can’t support themselves, or the children they already have, then go and decide to have another baby. I’m talking actively TTC. I literally said “trying to have a baby”

@adalynes.mommy, I explained it to you four times. You just didn’t care to hear it. 🤷🏼‍♀️

@jhalsted1995, no you insisted that I was wrong and your opinion was right🙃

because you were ill informed. Instead of reading my comments you too everything personally and it got you no where.

You can comment it’s your right. And we can say what we have to say as well. Bottom line.

No ones talking shit. It’s obvious you took it too personally. Stop standing by your opinion, that was based on you misreading what I said. Stop acting like a 15 year old little girl and behave like a lady.

@littleonemorning, would you prefer me to tell you something else? Trust me honey my words can get a lot meaner, especially if you think something I already said was “hostile” 😂💀

🙄🙄 Alright.

As I said you were in your feelings and took this post a little more personally than needed be.

really? That was rather childish. “My words can get a lot meaner” take that shit somewhere else.

She is one of the lucky few then. I know too many people who’s parents are raising their children, and they going out trying to get pregnant again.

@jhalsted1995. She is.. She was a childhood friend that I outgrew in my teens. Her sister is the total opposite and they don't talk bc of the choices that she makes. My so told me that I shouldn't talk to her so much bc her stupid decisions put a lot of stress on me... When I have enough as it is!

I have a childhood friend I have a similar issue with. She has a five year old daughter who her mom takes care of. She likes drugs more than anything and yet is trying to get pregnant

@jhalsted1995, awful.. Hopefully she gets it before she's as old as my friend with a bunch of babies. We are over 30 and she is still thinking like a 15 year old smh