In need of some advice I’ve been with my boyfriend for a few months and have just found out I’m 4…
In need of some advice
I’ve been with my boyfriend for a few months and have just found out I’m 4 weeks pregnant. I’ve told him about the pregnancy and he hasn’t taken it so lightly, he’s adamant he isn’t ready and suggests we abort the pregnancy. (We both don’t have any children)
I’ve always been against abortion and feel I’d regret it if I ever did it. How do I explain to him that I can’t do that without seeming selfish?
Gina·
At the end of the day it’s your decision. You don’t want to abort and end up regretting it but if he’s not ready you can’t force him to be ready to be a Dad so you may end up a single parent. You just need to have a proper conversation and both explain how you feel and why and go from there I think x
Lee·
Мама сына-младенца
first of all you are not selfish! He is the selfish one!! This is your decision and you will regret ending a life you will have a precious baby that will love you more then anything in the world! If you want true love you will have it from your baby! don’t do it! you can do this!!!
Lee··
Мама сына-младенца
and once he meets the baby his whole world might change! My friend went through the same thing as you and she’s a single mom to be now but she’s got support from friends and mom. You are a woman you are capable of doing anything and doing it alone I promise you won’t ever regret having your baby your child will fulfill your whole life
Vika·
Go together with your bf to a doctor, do an ultrasound. Once he sees a little one and maybe it has a heartbeat already 💕 your boyfriend and you will know what to do😉 .
Me and my husband were not ready to have kinds, we had other plans for next year. God bless the gynecologist we've visited ( honesty we both wanted to fix my pragnancy) , after visiting doctor we left the clinic like the hapiest parents.
There are many people in the world who can't have children. And you're lucky one , you can. Stay positive , it's a big happiness to feel how it moves inside you, to see how it developes, and one day to hear the voice..)
AT··
Thank you. I was told I can’t have children myself, this is my 9th pregnancy so I’m quite shocked that he’d even suggest it
vanessa·
Dont do it if you think u will regret it , and tell him if he really didn’t want any children he should of wrapped it