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I just found out last night that my abusive EX moved and works 10 minutes from my house (he lived about an hour away…

I just found out last night that my abusive EX moved and works 10 minutes from my house (he lived about an hour away from me originally). He hasn’t been a part of my daughters life since she was about 6 months or so. I never pressed charges when the abuse happened because I loved him at the time. Now all I want to do is protect my daughter and myself. I’m planning on going to talk to the police about this, but I feel like they won’t be able to put in an order of protection only because I don’t know his exact address.

Any ideas on what else I could do?

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momto3boys

Brooke HМама двоих (3 года, 8 лет)

Is he the father of your daughter? How long ago was the abuse

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vernadette

Veronica Мама дочки (3 года)

Yes he’s the father of my daughter. Not on the birth certificate. I don’t want to file for child support because I’ve done it by myself since she was born. I left the relationship almost 2 years ago. But I’m scared that hell try to stop by because he’s literally insane

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momto3boys

Brooke HМама двоих (3 года, 8 лет)

@vernadette I'm sure you can file a restraining order. He could take you for his rights to her. I'm not sure the laws there but in Arkansas you can file child abuse for a yr after it happen

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