Hey ladies, have anyone been late and not pregnant... I just loss my father so I don't know if it's because of the stress and saddness of loosing my dad 😭😭😭or what but I'm late..I want to test but I don't want to waste the money... My cycle was supposed to come on the first there was a little bit of blood and cramping after sex on the first but nothing after that.
Thank you,😭 I honestly was trying to build up the courage to go buy one from there.
I’m so sorry about your dad. I lost my mom almost 11 years, and I lost my dad 6 years ago.
There’s no need to rush taking a test right now. Focus on your dad, and laying him to rest. The test can wait a week or two, but if you don’t start your period in that time, I’d take one for sure.
I hope that you can find a little bit of peace in the upcoming days. I don’t know your relationship with your dad, but based on your comments, he loves you very much. He may not be here in physical form, but I know he is with you.
😭😭😭 thank you, is the saying true time heals?
@theirmommytiara, it doesn’t ever heal, but it does get easier to deal with. If you ever want to talk about, I’ll be happy to help.
I'm so nervous.. is like a part of me wants to know but then a part of me doesn't want to.. I know when somebody dies someone is born or getting ready to be born I don't know if that's the case. Honestly if it is I'm going to be sad because I didn't want my dad to go I wish my dad could come back.
Do you have any symptoms?
I'm sorry to hear about your father!
@bipolarmommyofone k thank you.. I kind of feel like maybe these symptoms are in my head. I have this on and off cramping on one side do you know what that can possibly be?
@theirmommytiara It might be ovulation I'm not sure though girl, I think if the pregnancy test you take is negative I suggest going to your doctor 😊
I’ve missed a month because of stress. Taking a test would just ease your mind. Even if it’s a cheap test.
I’m sorry about the loss of you father. ❤️
@theirmommytiara, i feel like waiting would just add more stress to you.
I hear you. Today marks 13 years I lost my grandpa and it still so tough for me.
@vernadette it never gets easier, I hate Death.. I'm sorry for your loss... I miss my grandfathers as well... Im scared to found out.. I think I'll test after my father funeral.. all I can think about is my dad right now so I want lay him to rest first.
@theirmommytiara, thank you.
And yes, take it when you can. I feel like pregnancy is a scary thing, planned or not planned.
I’m here if you need to talk about anything!
I was three weeks late because of stress.
I'm so sorry about your father.
So cramping underneath the stomach is normal? That's why I want to wait until December 1st just to give it time to see if it's going to come because that would be a month... Thank you so much 😭😭
@theirmommytiara, it can be. Stress does weird stuff to the body. I get severe heartburn from stress, which I also got when I was pregnant. Cramps, gas, nausea, can be from stress too. I did take a test that month (took quite a few, actually) but it was just stress. My fiance also thinks it could've been due to the antibiotics and cold medicine I had been on the month before, too 🤷♀️
You should probably test, just to know, but wait until you're ready. I know very well that losing a parent sucks, but you'll get through this. It won't be easy, but it'll happen. You never really get over it but you'll find ways to manage it and live your life. ❤️

This is gonna be my first, but I want 2. :)
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
What birth controls have worked flawlessly for you?... I don't want anymore kids after my daughter but I don't want to tie my tubes and I am not going to become a born again virgin so I want your best recommendations ladies! Thanks in advance :)
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
so anxious
going to TTC again for the first time this month after a mmc in November and d&c in December. that was my first pregnancy so I'm TERRIFIED I won't get pregnant again or get a sticky bean! We have a really good feeling about it but I don't want to get my hopes up :/. my fertile week starts Sunday and I would give anything to get my rainbow baby! let's hope I get pregnant and it sticks!
Sorry about your dad girl, but just buy one at the Dollar Tree they work as good as an expensive one from Walmart.