I love how I ask people very politely to not keep asking me when the baby is coming and why she hasn’t come yet or when do I think she will be here. And some people think it’s hilarious to go and ask under that post and say “you still didn’t have the baby? When is she coming?!” I don’t freaking know! And then when I tell them off, they catch an attitude with me. No one thought you were funny lady.
@theharmans2018, also, no judgment that you don’t breastfeed. I mean I understand that you can’t. But even if you could and chose not to, that’s your decision momma. I am choosing not to breastfeed this time because I need to be back on my medication for my mental health. And in order for me to be the best mom I can be, I need it.
@theharmans2018, yes I agree with you 100%. Or! If you have two kids of the same gender like me (I’m having my second girl) people ask “well you’re obviously gonna try for a boy right? Girls are so hard.” Uhm no. I’m not trying for a boy.
1.) if I do and I get another girl, then am I supposed to keep going? I can’t afford to keep having kids because YOU think I should keep trying till I have a boy.
2. My boyfriend has a son who’s mom walked out on him. That is my boy. That is my son.
3. My daughter is easy as hell. I’ll be damned if you stereotype all girls to being difficult.
My personal favorite is someone asked me if I'm giving my child "natural nuritment"? Oh you mean am I feeding her boob juice? No. Am I giving her nuritment aka feeding her? Yes you ignorant jacka**. And if you're wondering I can't breast feed. Side effects of having cancer. -_-
Its right up there with people asking when we're going to have another baby. It's such a personal question and not anyone's business honestly. I yelled at one person and was like please for the love of stop asking personal questions that are none of your business. Let me rephrase what you literally just asked me and see if it sounds offensive. So hey like when are you and your husband going to have another screw fest and pop out another kid? O.o sound offensive? Yeah? BECAUSE IT IS.
@gummybear728 lol yessssss Haha but do t throw it you might need it again later !!!!jk I agree with Rina stop responding !
I remember those days. Annoying AF. Just stop responding. That’s what I did. Lol.
@verguinia, @anything4salinas, thank you ladies for understanding and sharing lol I was so close to throwing my phone across the room yesterday with all the messages
@theharmans2018, I really can’t stand it! I keep telling everyone, I will make a big announcement when she is on her way OR already born. I literally woke up to 17 different messages from 17 different people asking me if the baby was coming yet or if I was in labor. And that’s been constant for two weeks now. I’m so sick of it lol I mean I get that people are excited for me, but please, be excited to yourself or my boyfriend. Not me. Lol
People are way too personal and never realize what they're actually asking. I yelled at a lady once and said do you realize you literally just ask me if I knew when my vagina was going to start diolating? No. No I don't. In fact that's a stupid question. NO ONE DOES.
It pissed me off when people asked me at thirty eight weeks. mainly my mother bc it was every single day and I finally went off on her and everyone and said that when our daughter arrived we would let everyone know at the same time otherwise stop asking because the answer to your question one is I have no flipping idea and two ask me one more time and if your standing next to me don't be surprised if I haul off and straight smack you.
I know what you mean by not knowing I also had no idea when my baby was gonna come it's not like my body can just say "hey Virginia its coming in 2 days" lol who knows not even the doctors are 100% sure. Baby will come when its baby's right time that actually all the info we truly know. I went to my regular appointment and the doctor was like hey you getting induced in 2 days I was like why ? And she said because I had GD but I didn't even know that until 2 days before!!!! It was crazy !!!! I Wish you a healthy fast and easy delivery....
I hated when people were doing that to me. I was due til now in November. And since like July they kept asking when's the baby coming because I was high risk for preterm labor. Then when I had my baby in September they kept saying it was because it was time already. Nooo he's a preemie. And they still showed up at the hospital trying to see him even after I told them they couldn't because he was in the NICU. So aggravating. Don't tell them when the baby is born lol
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Lol people that said they were coming to my baby shower never came.. But you say were friends! Then you wanna ask if the baby is here yet and to let you know when he's here.. No thank you😂😂 or am I over reacting???
I hate when people ask me "are you pregnant " like na I'm just fat 😒😑 tf you think 😑
I swear y’all kill me when people ask questions about THEIR child. If my child is 4m or 5m & I put a little cereal in the bottle it’s nothing wrong with it at all. NOTHING , especially if his doctor already gave me the go ahead. My god, each one teach their own though.
it’s 10 am where I am rn , do not come on my post with , articles about whatever. I’ll tell you kiss my ass today.
I see we have people that just live for drama on this app smh!!! you can criticised people but when people bring you facts to the table you wanna say "but who asked you" ....if you're wrong you're wrong... shyt I learn stuff everyday!!!!.. if you don't want true feedback this is not the app for you!! I'm not agreeing with you to make friends! get a life
@laniejay, I almost peed myself! 😂😂 that would explain all the heartburn 😂😂😂