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Kayla
Kayla
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (40 нед.)

I love how I ask people very politely to not keep asking me when the baby is coming and why she…

I love how I ask people very politely to not keep asking me when the baby is coming and why she hasn’t come yet or when do I think she will be here. And some people think it’s hilarious to go and ask under that post and say “you still didn’t have the baby? When is she coming?!” I don’t freaking know! And then when I tell them off, they catch an attitude with me. No one thought you were funny lady.

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anything4salinas

Julie

I hated when people were doing that to me. I was due til now in November. And since like July they kept asking when's the baby coming because I was high risk for preterm labor. Then when I had my baby in September they kept saying it was because it was time already. Nooo he's a preemie. And they still showed up at the hospital trying to see him even after I told them they couldn't because he was in the NICU. So aggravating. Don't tell them when the baby is born lol

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verguinia

Vee

Мама двоих (младенец)

I know what you mean by not knowing I also had no idea when my baby was gonna come it's not like my body can just say "hey Virginia its coming in 2 days" lol who knows not even the doctors are 100% sure. Baby will come when its baby's right time that actually all the info we truly know. I went to my regular appointment and the doctor was like hey you getting induced in 2 days I was like why ? And she said because I had GD but I didn't even know that until 2 days before!!!! It was crazy !!!! I Wish you a healthy fast and easy delivery....

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theharmans2018

Katy

It pissed me off when people asked me at thirty eight weeks. mainly my mother bc it was every single day and I finally went off on her and everyone and said that when our daughter arrived we would let everyone know at the same time otherwise stop asking because the answer to your question one is I have no flipping idea and two ask me one more time and if your standing next to me don't be surprised if I haul off and straight smack you.

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theharmans2018

Katy

People are way too personal and never realize what they're actually asking. I yelled at a lady once and said do you realize you literally just ask me if I knew when my vagina was going to start diolating? No. No I don't. In fact that's a stupid question. NO ONE DOES.

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gummybear728

Kayla

Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (40 нед.)

@theharmans2018, I really can’t stand it! I keep telling everyone, I will make a big announcement when she is on her way OR already born. I literally woke up to 17 different messages from 17 different people asking me if the baby was coming yet or if I was in labor. And that’s been constant for two weeks now. I’m so sick of it lol I mean I get that people are excited for me, but please, be excited to yourself or my boyfriend. Not me. Lol

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gummybear728

Kayla

Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (40 нед.)

@verguinia, @anything4salinas, thank you ladies for understanding and sharing lol I was so close to throwing my phone across the room yesterday with all the messages

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itskarina

🪴📚

I remember those days. Annoying AF. Just stop responding. That’s what I did. Lol.

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verguinia

Vee

Мама двоих (младенец)

@gummybear728 lol yessssss Haha but do t throw it you might need it again later !!!!jk I agree with Rina stop responding !

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theharmans2018

Katy

Its right up there with people asking when we're going to have another baby. It's such a personal question and not anyone's business honestly. I yelled at one person and was like please for the love of stop asking personal questions that are none of your business. Let me rephrase what you literally just asked me and see if it sounds offensive. So hey like when are you and your husband going to have another screw fest and pop out another kid? O.o sound offensive? Yeah? BECAUSE IT IS.

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theharmans2018

Katy

My personal favorite is someone asked me if I'm giving my child "natural nuritment"? Oh you mean am I feeding her boob juice? No. Am I giving her nuritment aka feeding her? Yes you ignorant jacka**. And if you're wondering I can't breast feed. Side effects of having cancer. -_-

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gummybear728

Kayla

Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (40 нед.)

@theharmans2018, yes I agree with you 100%. Or! If you have two kids of the same gender like me (I’m having my second girl) people ask “well you’re obviously gonna try for a boy right? Girls are so hard.” Uhm no. I’m not trying for a boy.

1.) if I do and I get another girl, then am I supposed to keep going? I can’t afford to keep having kids because YOU think I should keep trying till I have a boy.

2. My boyfriend has a son who’s mom walked out on him. That is my boy. That is my son.

3. My daughter is easy as hell. I’ll be damned if you stereotype all girls to being difficult.

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gummybear728

Kayla

Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (40 нед.)

@theharmans2018, also, no judgment that you don’t breastfeed. I mean I understand that you can’t. But even if you could and chose not to, that’s your decision momma. I am choosing not to breastfeed this time because I need to be back on my medication for my mental health. And in order for me to be the best mom I can be, I need it.

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blessed2018w9

blessed2018w9

Send this to them lol

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blessed2018w9

blessed2018w9

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gummybear728

Kayla

Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (40 нед.)

@blessed2018w9, yes!!

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laniejay

Lanie Jay

Send them this pic and say “she’s here!!! Isn’t she the cutest thing?!?”

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gummybear728

Kayla

Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (40 нед.)

@laniejay, I almost peed myself! 😂😂 that would explain all the heartburn 😂😂😂

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