My husbands begging me to come back and idk if I want to 😭
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It looks like y'all are doing better!! I love you Tay!!! And I'm always here for you.
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@taymw11 I love you so much too honey. Regardless if we talk daily or go months without speaking, please just know I'm always here for you
It looks like y'all are doing better!! I love you Tay!!! And I'm always here for you.
I’m sorry you’re dealing with all this. @laniejay, is right. “Actions speak louder than words.” My mom is stuck in an emotionally, verbally, and sometimes physically abusive relationship. When their baby was little, she stayed because he would say sorry and said he’d change. Now they have a 7 year old, and she’s been hospitalized twice, which is what brought me to her state. But now they are together still because he says he’s going to turn the kid against her. Which he will because he’s a selfish prick.
Anyways. That’s not my personal experience, but I do have one. This is what I’ll say. People tend to forget it. But it’s always true. Kids learn by watching you. It breaks my heart, but this 7 year old, is already acting like his dad. I wish cursing was the worst of it. I don’t know your guy. Or the ins and outs of what’s going on. I just know that little ones are very impressionable. I wish you the best. ❤️
@taymw11, make him change FIRST. Don’t go back to a promise. Therapy and time. Then consider it
@dontspankme, thank you soo much spanky! I’m going to talk to him to make my decision. It just sucks all of it
@laniejay, and yes emotionally abusive but he’s saying he’ll change. Either way I have to go talk to see what we’re gonna do
@laniejay, well he was threatening to come get him and then he changed his tone
Aww tay I’m so sorry 😩 stay strong for you and baby boy and take as much time as you need. If you want to message me I’m always here for you love.
@taymw11, if I remember correctly- he is abusive, correct? Then you didn’t give up on the marriage HE did. And if you return you’re not fixing your marriage, you’re giving him permission to abuse you again. You and your son deserve better. You didn’t say he wanted to see his son- you said he’s threatening to take him. There’s a difference.
, @laniejay, he said he wants to see just wants to see his son. And yes idk what I want to do. It’s a hard situation. And I’m in a tough spot. I am soo sorry I don’t have the mind set or the strength like you would to just give up on my marriage. I’m sorry it’s harder for others. And before anyone says anything yes I am thinking of my son but it’s still hard. His daddy is good with him.
So he’s threatening you with the child? Sounds stable and like a great idea 😒
You left for a reason. Instead of working on himself and being a better person, he’s continuing the behavior. All this and you don’t know if you want to?
So since his pleading for you to come back isn't working...he's threatening to take the kid?
@taymw11, well that threat alone should speak very loud! He needs more time to work on himself it seems like. I think you need more time too.
@massmomma16, it’s been a week and he’s acted like I’m his world and he can’t live without me but I just told him I don’t know if I feel the same after all the emotional damage I’ve been through and he’s threatening to come get lane
They always do. I don’t think anyone can or will change basically over night.
@taymw11 I love you so much too honey. Regardless if we talk daily or go months without speaking, please just know I'm always here for you