How can I make myself stop feeling guilty for having another baby? I am happy to be having another baby, another daughter, but I keep crying because I feel bad for my oldest. She has had my undivided attention for the past 2 years and i just feel bad now.
I know exactly how you feel I had it my whole pregnancy I felt guilty and cried every day but once he was born it went away but once they were together i stopped feeling guilty altogether kaysen was of course jealous of baby but make sure you give them both lots of attention and let big sister help with her baby sister it really does help a lot even till this day kaysen has to help hold Koopers bottle help feed him throw his diapers away get him toys there bond is great and there best friends now
I definitely can relate I feel terrible sometimes because my oldest is obviously not a baby anymore & my youngest now 3 gets most the attention from almost everyone because she’s a handful.
@itty_bitty after I have her sister she is going to stay with her dad for about a week and I am afraid she is going to think I am pushing her away because of the new baby. I'm having her sister this coming up Monday and I am literally a ball of emotion and cant handle it. I dont even have my oldest right now becayse it is her dads weekend. I was suppose to get her back today, but he completely forgot I wanted her today and tomorrow and that id bring her back to him Sunday night since i had to be at the hospital at 5:30am monday
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.

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Transgender children
So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are...
Don't worry hunny, my oldest was 11 when her sister was born and I still feel that way. Its a natural feeling and it shows how good of a mom you are and that you love your kids. Best believe your oldest will love up on the baby!!!