He thinks I’m cheating when I’m running my errands like it’s makes me sad and wanting to leave him 😢😢😢 cause he gets all mad and not wanting talk to after that even when I tell him what i was doing..
Usually those who accuse people are cheating themselves and they’re projecting their guilt
I feel you. My husband blames me for clearing my phone and having a boyfriend I've never gave him any reason to think it. I mean come on he gets on and look at the phone bill and I always have 1 or the 3 kids
Hate to be that person but he could be doing that because he himself is actually cheating...
My ex husband did this to me too. Hence also why he's an ex husband. I'm sorry you're going through that, its awful. Also happened to my friend, turns out he was the cheating one. As laniejay said, often guilt is projected onto the other party.
@laniejay, he’s been saying this since we were 3/4 months of dating and I told him my daughter father would do the same thing and I left him...@momof3cuties, yes if I clear my phone it would be cause I’m hiding something like really and it’s just frustrating at times like how could you even think that when I never cheated on you or anything else...@laniejay, he had a bad relationship before me and whatever she did to him I’m paying for it
My boyfriend gets like that once it a while but it's usually when he's not properly medicated
This is a serious conversation yo have with him. A relationship requires TRUST. And trusting that when you say your running errands when you're ACTUALLY RUNNING ERRANDS is very basic. He's got to get over his suspicion or it'll tear you both apart.
My man used to do this but now he doesn't we were both like this when we first got together. Then we had a talk ans started trusting each other. 11yrs strong.
most of the time when someone is accusing you of something its because they are guilty that they are doing it to you so they find a way to make themselves feel better and a way so you wont find out and thats "accusing you of what they are doing", this happened to me and a few of my exs. Now that i learned my lesson, when im being accused by anyone i ask them the same question(s) they ask me, "Are you cheating on me?" "Are you cheating on me?" most of the time the case is that they are the ones cheating or doing whatever they are accusing you of😒 @meka2013
I laugh at him I find it funny he thanks that. His mom and sister walled out when he was 12 and he is 29 now and they want nothing to do with him his last girlfriend cheated and so on.
I’d give him a reason to think I’m cheating... some insecure men have a habit of trying to break a women down and Train them to be dismissive. Because they know you deserve better. It’s abusive in every way! That’s a horrible way to live. He has issues and he’ll never change. Have your baby. Cheat on his ass for real and find someone new!
I’m sorry to say this but I agree that if someone is constantly popping off about you cheating on them when you have given NO reason for them to think that, the reason is usually them. They’re paranoid that since they’re capable, you would be capable too, but they don’t want that.
My dad did that to my mom. I’ve had two exes that did it to me. :/
Always know watch the accuser.. if he’s accusing you that means he’s cheating
I swear my husband does this as well. It was worse before we had kids. I believe he is very insecure and probably was cheated on multiple times or something. It's very odd to me. Only guy I was ever with that did this shit to me
@ladyfreyja, yes it was worse before I got pregnant like we would FaceTime I had to show him my apartment cause he thought somebody was there and he’ll pop up at my house a hour later smh to see for himself... and now I’m pregnant he doesn’t think it’s his baby.. yes I believe he insecure and was cheated on his so called 2nd bm cheated and had a baby but the little girl looks nothing like him..
So sorry you're going thru that. He's probably accusing you bc he's the one who's cheating.
My hubby does the same, especially if I left the house for any reason! He would freak! Even when I stay home all day he always asks where’s Sancho it’s so stupid, it’s like I don’t even talk to any man besides him. Yet alone know any men ! Guys are psycho “
I’ve been in this situation. It’s a terrible way to live and it only gets worse. Save your self and get out.
@meka2013 both times I was pregnant he would ask a million times if it was his to. I told him if he wants to pay for the paternity test go for it.
Lanie Jay·
Usually those who accuse people are cheating themselves and they’re projecting their guilt
Olivia ·
Hate to be that person but he could be doing that because he himself is actually cheating...