So my little man will be 9 months on November 1. I’m now thinking about a 2nd baby soon as I want my kids close in age of at least 2-2.5 years. However I can’t help but feel guilty. I almost want my son to be my only little one 😭😭 yet I don’t want him alone and I love the idea of a little family of 4. The idea of him no longer being my only little baby makes me feel so sad, yet I get excited at the thought of another baby. Anyone else experience this?
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I think everyone feels like that or most people anyways.. our first baby’s are just the most amazing thing and the thought of having another is a guilty kind of feeling but siblings are a gift in my opinion. And trust me when the second one comes it will be like you’ve always had two! I wish I would have had my first two closer together. They’re 3 years apart and I wish they were a bit closer
I got pregnant when my son was only 3 months. To be honest I was heart broken because like you I wanted to be just him and I for a while. I was scared he’d feel alone but he’s now two and she’s one and they absolutely adore each other. Having them close is great! :)
Yes, especially while I was pregnant with our second. I felt like I would be taking something away from him. Like me and my time and attention. But he loves both if his baby brothers. He has been an amazing big brother from the start. And I am so glad I get to watch them grow up together and be so close.
Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he said... so she came up with the idea to have me pee on a stick for her and show it to him so that he’ll be comfortable with not wearing a condom and finishing in her.. basically the whole idea is to make him think she’s pregnant already...... so I do this favor for her or should I tell my girl to chill?
He and my husband are friends through us and he’s going to invite him over...
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Everyone told me I couldn't spoil my baby when there so little .. but he only wants to sleep in my arms or near me ... Did I spoil him already ? Not that it matters I gave up my awesome career to dedicate my time to him as a Sahm but just wondering ... #1month
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Boy names are so hard 😒 Any ideas or tips for this first time mommy? I feel overwhelmed cause I want it to be perfect 💙 He's my first son / baby ! 👣
Get excited! It's great! I think a lot of women feel guilty, but that's not going to change the situation. I guess it's easier said than done, but think positively!