ericarae
Erica
A no contact order was just lifted yesterday between my sons father and I. Since we are expecting Should I let him know the gender and when I go into labor? Or just let him reach out to me? I feel either way I go it will have a negative outcome....if I reach out to him he may not care, if I don’t...it can be perceived as me being spiteful and holding back information....so lost...😔
23.10.2018
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ericarae
@mimixtmn, yea that’s why i said I was on the fence because if I reach out will I get negativity or if I don’t I’m spiteful. Overall it’s a tough decision
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mimixtmn
I would make contact just to be cordial it’s kind of a sticky situation and he could think you don’t want him to contact. So I would suck it up and reach out let him know the sex and then leave it up to him to be involved or not.
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ericarae
@flamingomom, oh no i would never keep him away. We have a 4 year old that he still spends times with since this all transpired.
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ericarae
@fakoff.diehexe, far as labour I’m not sure how it will go. Like i mentioned I’m on the fence because it can go either way. If I don’t include him because I feel there so much going on, I could be coming off as spiteful. If I include him and it’s a lot of negativity, I will regret it.
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ericarae
@fakoff.diehexe, yes i have gender reveal cards that i was sending out this week. So it will be very plain and simple.
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ericarae
@cams, the cops stated since they seen 2 small scratches on me that it had to be reported as “domestic violence” the call was just to have him removed. So the entire issue went left quickly. When he was released that’s when I was told a no contact order had to be placed.
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ericarae
Long story short, got into an argument, cops called he was arrested (case will be dismissed) Court enforced no contact order. I only had the power to lift it.
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sorcha
Who issued the no contact order? That should determine who should communicate first. Depending on the situation, depends on what should happen.
I also am assuming he knows you are expecting.
I also am assuming he knows you are expecting.
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