When i was pregnant with Caleigha I had nightmares. Nightmares that seemed so real I’d wake up in…
When i was pregnant with Caleigha I had nightmares. Nightmares that seemed so real I’d wake up in tears. This time around, it’s a lot of dreams about Ryan cheating on me, or leaving me for another woman, or another woman trying to take him from me. I don’t know which one is worse but I hate waking up feeling so heartbroken over something that’s not real.
Mother Of Him&Her·
I had similar dreams when I was pregnant with my first. I would be so mad at him lol. Some days I literally needed space due to the dream lol.
Shawna Santistevan·
@wolfnurturer, I felt that way about one dream lol only because it was a girl I’ve had issues with when it comes to him.
Usually though it makes me want to snuggle up to him for comfort. I’m dying under the weight of the dreams though, it’s been every night for the last week,
Mother Of Him&Her·
@santistevanmommie He did/does things to assure trust in him but those dreams made it hard plus i have trust issues. Do you talk to him about them?
Shawna Santistevan·
@wolfnurturer, I feel the same way!! Like I know he isn’t doing anything but it puts doubts in my head.
Most times I do talk to him about them or at least tell him I had that kinda dream and he holds me and tells me it’s okay. It helps more when I do get to talk to him about it though.
Mother Of Him&Her·
@santistevanmommie talking is definitely key. I would try to stay open about the dreams and know that they are just dreams.
Shawna Santistevan·
@wolfnurturer, thanks mama! 💕
Mother Of Him&Her·
@santistevanmommie no problem :)
Ana·
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I have the same dreams too. Its silly
Zzzzzzzz·
I went thru like 3 months of having those type of dreams about a year ago and I was not pregnant. Except my dream was that I was looking for my husbands and children and I didn’t know who they were. It is a horrible feeling to wake up from something that seemed so real. One day they just went away on their own. So weird.
L·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Pregnancy dreams are insanely realistic sometimes. I loved it most the time, but then I had similar dreams as what you're having, too. I agree that you should just tell him when you have those dreams. He will most likely comfort you and you'll feel better.
Shawna Santistevan·
@techie_grrl, he is usually so good about comforting me when he knows. I just don’t want him to feel like I actually think that’s what he’s doing.
L·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@santistevanmommie I'm sure he knows that you understand it's just a dream. 😊
Adrianna Nondorf·
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I’ve been having nightmares too but random ones. Last nights was about the woman and her daughters who were killed by her husband in Colorado 😕 I think I read too many articles on fb.
Shawna Santistevan·
@forever_outnumbered, with my first they were horrifying. One of the 2 I remember vividly is me killing my niece in my dream because she was trying to kill Ryan.
I woke up sobbing and had to go look for her I was so sure it was real.