How do we choose between $30 an hour or 20$ an hour? Obviously $30. But I’ll be 15 hours away from family in another…

@lostmyveecard, only on holidays when they have days off 😩 I’m only going to be able to see my parents 3 times a year 😢

@njgriffin maybe your family would be willing to make the trip

@lostmyveecard, lol I HATE going alone and on top of that with two little kids 😳

@njgriffin taking a train isn't too expensive if you wanted a week to visit family even if he's working, and it's easier than it seems lol

@lostmyveecard, yeah but probably for only holidays when hubby has Days off

For $30/hour you'll have the money to visit frequently

@alejandra1x, he actually has no one to leave behind lol he only talks to his grandma since he really dosnt have much family and isn’t really close to them. I on the other hand have ALOT of family and close to every since on of them

@njgriffin, you just described my life lol. All my family are in NY, we have moved to VA, CA back to VA. It takes time to adjust if you make that move which seems like you are leaning towards, as long as you and your husband are going through this hand in hand you two will make it work. He is also making sacrifices leaving family but he sees you and your babies are worth it.

@swedishmomma, @alejandra1x, in Indiana I’ll literally have no one. Not friends or family ☹️ hubby and I won’t ever get one on one time or go on dates. And I feel bad that my parents won’t get to see their grand babies often ☹️ it’s just a hard choice. Money can buy happiness but it’ll get us a lot of things we do need 😖

I'm like the other lady commenting here, I'm an army wife and stuck in NC, 14 hours away from my family. You do get used to it. Its a bit more stressful but you learn to deal with it.

That’s my navy wife life lol. I got used to it and I visit family as much as I can. If benefits your family I say go for it.