The first 3 weeks were so easy. I feel like it gets harder every week and people keep saying it gets better, but I don’t feel like it is! I hate being a mom lately!
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Girl I know u sick of hearing it but it will get better. Note I never said easy!!! But it will get better u will learn what ur baby need at different times u will learn the different cries. And u will adjust. I have 4 kids so trust me when I say it gets better. But easy 🤷🏾♀️ I still can’t say that.
The 4th trimester is definitely hard, mine just turned a month old and is barley letting me put her down instead of holding her all the time , but we all have our days including babies ❤️
It never gets easier wait till the toddler stage lol but it’s worth it ❤️
It does get easier, once they’re 18 and out of the house! jk☺️ I find that it does get easier eventually, but really you’re just facing different challenges at different stages!
I feel you. It doesn’t get better honestly, you just get use to things and it becomes “normal” to you. I have a 2 1/2 yr old and a 1 yr old... I have good days and worse days, We just get through it and sometimes it surprises me at the end of each day lol. But that’s what makes us amazing mothers ❤️. Hang in there, you got this!
@ataraxia, well I have a routine down for my son like I know he wants a bottle every 2.5 to 3 hrs he sleeps after he eats for about an hour and some days I’m lucky ☺️ he sleeps 3 to 4 hrs then when I see him start to wiggle around I go get his bottle heat up and it’s ready for him when he finally gets up.. our nightly routine is a little different I normally pick him up from my mom house at 3:00 after work I stay at my mom house for about 3.5 hrs until traffic ease up then get him ready I give him s bottle and he sleeps the 45 minutes away to our destination then we get home he still sleep so I wash up his bottles and fill them up he wakes up and then we play a little bit I give him a bath with night time baby wash by aveeno then he takes another bottle and falls asleep around 9:30 and sleeps for 4rs ... but all babies are different but you will be good mama
It will get better... when people say that.. they are basically saying your baby won’t always be a baby time will fly by and you will look up and your child will be an adult
@ataraxia, I thought I was going crazy the first months! It was so hard getting used to 4 kids and my baby was colicky so made it worse. It does get easier mama you will get the hang of things :) is your baby fussy?
Ahh I'm sorry momma it really does get better once u guys start connecting it gets easier the first four months where complete hell for me but once she started expressing her self more and communicating with me in her little baby ways it takes a load off hang in there
@ataraxia it gets easy I do it alone and I'm married sometimes you may have to go sit in the room and just father your thoughts you got this mama you can do it. Everyday you learn something new I'm a vet with kids but still learn something new everyday
First 6 weeks are hard no doubt. Hormones that have been in your body for 9 months suddenly disappear, the baby is getting used to the outside world, you are getting used to your baby, you’re tired and still have to find time to adult and take care of yourself while taking care of someone who is completely helpless. It truly does get better. Relax when you can and don’t be afraid to ask for help if you need it.
@bennysmom, that makes sense because I’m struggling with trying to create a routine!
@bennysmom, some days are definitely harder than others. Don’t know how people do it alone!
@rasul.nadine, seems like when you do got it down packed things change up!
It takes a lot of time theres adjustments for everyone. My son is 1.5 & some days I still struggle .
It got better for me with my son between 3-4 months. But it's different for everyone of course. Hang in there!
Why can't other mom's just be there for other mom's and work together and help each other not bash other mom's because when other mom's bash other mom's it makes us feel like we aren't doing a good job at least that's how I feel when I get bashed.
I need to get out this hospital bed I been here a whole week I feel like I'm getting depressed
AM I THE ONLY ONE
Who feels like when I'm on the highway traveling and me and a car follow eachother for awhile, I feel like we are friends and when they exit I get sad?!? Because if I'm not the only one who feels like this then I have the BEST story of my life for you.
Ok is it me but I feel like the same ppl get on here asking the same questions like the answers are going to change 😑😩😒
Obsessive
Does anyone else feel completely consumed by wanting to get pregnant? I feel like it's all I ever think about these days and I'm starting to drive myself crazy?
U got this girl!!