I am so I am so thankful I decided to get fixed just found out I'm pre-diabetic I know they say when you have gestational diabetes you have a higher chance of becoming a diabetic after I never had any problems with my first kid but this kid I had lots of problems even my deliveries were rough I'm blessed with two kids and I'm thankful for them I'm not going to force myself to have more kids because everyone thinks you should have as many as you can when all reality you're tearing your body down my kids need me and I'm not going to keep putting myself at risk just to have more babies having my tubes tied was the smartest thing I've ever done