@angelfoodcake, do what’s best for your family I’ll be working untill my water breaks
@jasmine.moore7509 He says that but it will be stressful on all of us, I'm going to try and make it until Oct 26
@angelfoodcake, I can’t wait till I can say it’s 60/40 or something 🙏🏽🤦🏽♀️😂 but right now it’s okay. And honey you better take leave if he say it’s okay
@jasmine.moore7509 @kmsespy it's more that 62/38 over here with my husband bringing in more but every little bit helps....
He told me to put in my leave now but I'm not because I know it's going to be stressful
@kmsespy "Sleep" what's that?
@jasmine.moore7509, seriously though, I can tell my sleep is getting worse the bigger I get and I worry so much about my little girl in there. 😭
@kmsespy, 5am I despise it 😩🤦🏽♀️ at this point my body is just like that’s enoughhhhh
@jasmine.moore7509, I was the bread winner for a couple years till my man finally got a job becoming a plumber this year but still, you’re further than me and I still feel like tomorrow should be my last day waking up at 5am.
@kmsespy, girl it’s 50/50 in my household 🙄 which is alright. But every morning I’m like whyyyyyyyy!!! I hate wobbling out of bed
@jasmine.moore7509, FR! I wish I could be a stay at home mom, I just don’t know that I could do that unless I made the same amount or had a man with a substantial income. 😪
@kmsespy, exactly that’s why they can train there own temp. I’m tired my back hurts my vagina hurts my feet are swollen and Im not in the mood
@jasmine.moore7509, I had to do that as well and the fucker now takes time off every three days like they couldn’t fire him now that he’s my back up. 😠 all this loyalty for a company that’ll just replace you if you even dare to have a family while providing.
@kmsespy, Okayyyyy has the nerve to tell me I need to train the temp that’s covering me on maternity leave 😒 I said I don’t think so you train her
@jasmine.moore7509, same! I’m third highest seniority and they act like when I leave when I’m deathly ill is some kind of betrayal.
@kmsespy, yes I feel bad if I take off because I’m the only one who does my
Position
@angelfoodcake, yes and I scheduled all my appointments for mornings so I easily make the time up during the week. I definitely feel the exhaustion on my
Body now no matter how much I sleep or lay down when I get off it’s never enough. And this last month has been hard on me.
@angelfoodcake, same. And you just feel bad for taking off time for the appts. 😭 doesn’t it suck!? I don’t get why having a baby isn’t a reason for a raise and at least a months worth of paid leave. Poor babies.
@jasmine.moore7509 I haven't called off either other than missing some time on appt days
@kmsespy I also won't get paid during leave so we will definitely face financial struggles because of it... So the plan was to right up until my induction date
@angelfoodcake, have to. 😪 I’m terrified of having my water break at work but besides that, I don’t get paid maternity leave so it’s that or plan it up to 3 days before I’m due.
@angelfoodcake, I am I feel might as well only two weeks left. 🤷🏽♀️ I did request off the two days right before my due date. I’ve worked the entire time not one call off that’s probably why I’m exhausted and feel like crying about any and everything
@jasmine.moore7509 @kmsespy are y'all working until the end?
@kmsespy, exactly that’s why they can train there own temp. I’m tired my back hurts my vagina hurts my feet are swollen and Im not in the mood