**Rant**
My husband seems to think that I would be in the mood to do things for him 😉😉 even now at 5 weeks pp. I am very self conscious at the moment still. And I’m still slightly in pain. I don’t sleep great because of the baby not sleeping great. Yet he has the audacity to make me feel even more like crap because I’m not doing those “fun” things for him. I also have other things on my mind like why my incision is still pen slightly and oozing mildly, and my oldest kids trip to outdoor school, and money, and ...... the list goes on. Wish he would understand that while yes I have needs to there are other people who need me first before myself and then I have to care for myself before I can make him happy too. Ugh just wish men had a clue about what we go through with pregnancy and birth and newborns.
I think it’s a thing that men get abit selfish during that time.. wanting that attention, and some reason think we are like unbreakable healing gods lol
But definitely wait the 6 weeks,
He can wait it out just like u have too
Tell him you have to wait until your cleared at your 6 week pp appointment.
I wish....
There was a place all of us could bring our May babies to play with each other, so our babies could have some great friends, like we all have in this group :)))
I wish my hair was thin . I have thick wavy hair.
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?

Raptor is doing GREAT!! He is off of everything (as you can see :)) except for a feeding tube and an IV!! I got discharged today so I could get to my baby boy! I got to hold him skin to skin and it was the most amazing thing I have ever experienced.

These things are great !! I got 2 ounces out of my right one while he was on my left! I didn’t have this i would have wasted 2 ounces by just letting it leak😦
@joyfulmom2b, @beakymcspence, @penelope127, thank you