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I just want my husband to clean up after himself, is that to much to ask. What ever he leaves a mess I will not be…

I just want my husband to clean up after himself, is that to much to ask. What ever he leaves a mess I will not be cleaning up after him. I am so tired of cleaning up after him. I have the house looking amazing every day and when he gets home from work he leaves a trail behind him. When our daughter gets here I will not be able to clean up after him. It's to much work. Im 8 months pregnant and my body needs to relax and rest. It's hard to after he makes the house a mess every morning before work. :( I will definitely be taking to him about this. Just needed to vent. Its so frustrating. I'm not his freaking maid.

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angelbrownell26

AngelFirstTimeMommyВ ожидании первенца

@paigerue2013 lol, i feel that way about the laundry shoot when hubby throws his clothes on the floor after his shower. Lol like dud open the shoot and throw it down.

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angelbrownell26

AngelFirstTimeMommyВ ожидании первенца

@jmedina lol yes after 8 years together, I have to remind him also. Lol it's frustrating because it take energy to just remind him. Lol

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paigerue2013

Paige RueМама сына (2 года), беременна (39 нед.)

@angelbrownell26, girl I completely agree!! I hate how he lays the clothes NEXT to the clothes hamper...like seriously dude? Your so close 😂

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jmedina

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Yes that's the worst. I don't care if the man is making all the money or not, they are grown men and can pick up after theirselves. I do almost all the housework and cook. His jobs are to unload the dishwasher, trash, and clean up after himself and of course help with the kids when he is home. He is pretty good about it but I still have to constantly remind him to pick up after himself after 9 years of marriage! Lol

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amanda.lk

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@angelbrownell26, haha well that’s good!

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angelbrownell26

AngelFirstTimeMommyВ ожидании первенца

@amanda.lk it's okay I did talk to him. He picked up the stuff off the floor and smiled and flirted with me about it even though I was grumpy about it. Lol

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angelbrownell26

AngelFirstTimeMommyВ ожидании первенца

@paigerue2013 yeah I was thinking about that also. He does make a good life for us. I do get income coming in also. I am on disability. I do appreciate him. But I would still appreciate it if he at least didn't leave stuff on the floor specially because our pup will chew his stuff when we leave if it's left on the floor or table.

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amanda.lk

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@angelbrownell26, I’m sorry. I totally get it. I think you should try and talk to him sometime, even if you want to wait until after the baby. I think that they just don’t think/ and or realize sometimes what they are doing.

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angelbrownell26

AngelFirstTimeMommyВ ожидании первенца

@amanda.lk I completely understand. It gets me especially upset when he throws stuff on the floor. It's hard to pick that stuff up with being this pregnant. That part makes me feel like crying. My body feels awful and I don't have the energy to do it or even talk to him about it. Its so upsetting.

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paigerue2013

Paige RueМама сына (2 года), беременна (39 нед.)

I don’t think I know a man who does...I am a SAHM, 9 months pregnant, and I continue to do all the house work, take care of our 2 year old and I still have to pick up his clothes off the floor and clean up his plate from the dinner table 🙄 like really it’s the little things that could help! But I try not to complain since he lets me stay home with our boys while he goes to work :/

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amanda.lk

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My boyfriend is like this. I told him I’m not his mother. We talked about it and he’s actually gotten better. I have 2 kids that destroy the house, I don’t need him doing it too.

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

do you... Clean up after your SO is done cooking? Or vice versa? DF was cooking and while he was cooking I unloaded the…

do you... Clean up after your SO is done cooking? Or vice versa? DF was cooking and while he was cooking I unloaded the dish washer and hand washed the pot he had used and put dishes in the dish washer, so by the time he got his plate, dishes were done and left overs were in Tupperware on the counter just in case anyone wanted seconds and counters were wiped down. The room mate asked me why I do that, and I just say that's how I was raised. I always clean up after anyone cooks in the house, even after myself. I clean as I cook, so DF doesn't clean up because it's done before dinner is finished lol. But there's rare occasions where he'd be in the kitchen while I cook so he does help out with the cleaning since i cook during the day sometimes so we can heat it up when it's dinner time. I want everyone to get their first and seconds before I eat. My mom has taught me to always clean up after your spouse makes dinner, it's only fair. They put their effort into cooking, you should always help them out.

ok so I really messed things up with my bf and I need advise! :'( he cheated on me in the beginning of our relationship…

ok so I really messed things up with my bf and I need advise! :'( he cheated on me in the beginning of our relationship and we got through that after he cried for me to forgive him but he said not to ever bring it up and yesterday I messed up and got mad at him and text him accusing him :'( he got upset and broke up with me! today he said he has to see a change in me before he even consider getting back with ne because he is tired of me accusing him and I love him so much what do I do? no rudeness please