Im huge on ignoring Drs because believe it or not their not always right. I know my body and I know my baby but today I let my Dr get in my head and he had me so freaked out and scared I had to go to the emergency room spent 5 hours to tell me everything my.dr said could and was wrong is absolutely nothing . I'm switching Drs in the morning
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Let me know if you got it. Because i had to thi k for a minute and get my mommy brain going
Any 1st time moms who had a c-section? My due date is Wednesday. At my Dr appt today, my Dr said I'm not dilated at all. My baby has been measuring big all along, and my Dr now estimates he is about 9.5lbs and doesn't think I can deliver him naturally... so she scheduled me for a c-section on Thursday. This is my 1st baby, and I really don't know how to feel about it all.
Ladies I need advice I am so stressed out and so upset. My mans ex is giving out his number to strange men and telling them to pretend that they know me and they text my man nasty things and say that I know them and that they had sex with me but I don’t know anyone from this area since I just moved here a couple of months ago. I am at loss and so afraid that he’s gonna leave me I keep breaking down..
I am so stressed right now!!! My OB doesn’t want to take me anymore because I am too “high risk” so I got a new one they don’t want to see me either. They referred me to a group one hour way from my house. But there is only one high risk dr and he doesn’t know if he could see me. I feel like I should not see any at this point.
mary·
Мама дочки (7 лет)
@cams yea definitely going to someone else
Cams ·
@pmary2754, oh damn. Well maybe a new doc with better technology is a good idea.
mary·
Мама дочки (7 лет)
@cams his ultrasound is about as old as him you can see better on a tube tv then it so when he was looking for a heartbeat he didn't see anything heck idk how he even saw the baby
Cams ·
Why didn’t he try the Doppler or ultrasound instead of shipping you off to the ER?
mary·
Мама дочки (7 лет)
@beniteza11 yea I agree some Drs are amazing and do know what their talking about and you can definitely tell who they are but I try to always take what they said and see if I feel the same
Ana·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
Doctors just guess and give you test till they can guess the correct issue. So they are not always right. But they are paid to try to make the right guess.
mary·
Мама дочки (7 лет)
@amberjacq agree
Amber Jacq ·
Some doctors are complete idiots
tiera shaye ·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@pmary2754, that’s good. I had a midwife for my first and absolutely loved it. So much more personal in my opinion and I am all for the most natural birth and options and she was big on that as well. But I didn’t get to use her for my second because she moved to a hospital an hour away and ours didn’t have another midwife which was a bummer. Then I ended up not even having my dr deliver my baby. She was on vacation and I had the dr on call. 😂 which is just my luck
mary·
Мама дочки (7 лет)
@tiera_shaye me to I'm thinking a midwife
tiera shaye ·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@pmary2754, yes. Those poor women. ☹️ I’m glad you are switching to a different doctor though.
mary·
Мама дочки (7 лет)
@tiera_shaye and thank you I am too
mary·
Мама дочки (7 лет)
@tiera_shaye yes I agree and apparently I'm not the first person he's done it to witch makes me sad Thoes poor women
tiera shaye ·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@pmary2754, glad everything is ok! He sounds like an ass of a doctor. That is so unprofessional getting you worked up like that.
mary·
Мама дочки (7 лет)
@kirstieh yes 100% agree I'm happy nothing was wrong and normally I don't let him not moving get to me because my daughter was practically a statue but like I said he got in my head the nurse told me he has worked many patients up and always tells them their a week ahead witch I think is off as well
Kirstie ·
@pmary2754, I’m sorry to hear that, glad your baby is okay, and you got checked out. Always better to err on the side of caution and make sure babe is okay ❤️
mary·
Мама дочки (7 лет)
He said they he thought I lost the baby because I was cramping in my.upper stomach and the baby hadn't move in a day . Turns out he was just in a good position to where I didn't feel him moving and the pain was completely normal. I mentally new nothing was wrong but between being sore and all this dreams about going into labor then him literally running out of the room and pushing me to go to the ER I broke down on the poor nurse
Kirstie ·
You ok hun? What did the doctor say that had you worried?