According to my boys grandma. Im not supposed to pushish the boys by making one stay home because he doesnt listen while…
According to my boys grandma. Im not supposed to pushish the boys by making one stay home because he doesnt listen while hes out. According to her, both of them need to go everywhere together because otherwise its not fair. NEWS FLASH LIFE ISNT FAIR!! and if my 5yo isnt going to listen when someone takes him somewhere then he can stay home until he wants to behave and not cop an "i can fo what i want attitude" and run off in the store. It wasnt even me that said he had to stay home it was his uncle, his uncle didnt want to deal with his attitude, him running off And not listening while my 8 year old was learning how to use a bow. Last time i checked they were brothers not conjoined twins.. SMH
Mom4m·
Мама четверых детей
@laniejay can't yet i need more evidence against her tol make sure she gets the visits taken away
Lanie Jay·
@mom4m, are you taking her back to court?
Mom4m·
Мама четверых детей
@bodybycheetos i know, just blows my mind cuz shell sit there and complain about how bad they act sometimes to their aunt but she does nothing about it. Their aunt tells her well punish them and she says she wont because she doesnt want them to hate her. SMH. Your supposed to be their other parent not their friend or a fun house. Grandmas house that kids go to one night a month or so is supposed to be fun but structured not a free for all. Its just frustrating
Mom4m·
Мама четверых детей
@wafflespancakes i cant with them. Im constantly telling my 5yo that if he doesnt want to be punish for something then he needs to stop the first time hes asked to do so. Hes already got 4 bad remarks about him not listening in his agenda and hes only been in kinder for 6 days
BakingDaddy ·
@mom4m unfortunately I'm gonna give you the same advice. Neither of you can control what goes on in the others home. I know it isn't what you want to hear, but that is co-parenting.
Mom4m·
Мама четверых детей
@bodybycheetos exactly but that Doesn't even work because everytime i get somewhere with them they go over there and everything goes right out the window and one or both come back acting like their entitled to the world and dont take a word i say seriously. Theres no doubt in my mind that theyre telling them not to listen to me. Like my kids probably tell them that they got sent to their room for something they did and she probably sits there like oh dont listen to her shes just mean
BakingDaddy ·
Tell her she can parent her own way while they are with her but needs to butt out of the way you do things 🤷🏽♀️
wafflespancakes·
Yeah, that’s ridiculous. If you can’t behave, you don’t get to participate.
Mom4m·
Мама четверых детей
@lii94 that's how i feel. But when they go over for there for court ordered visits. Their grandparents let my 5 yo get away with everything. He came home the other day and my stepdad told him to stop doing wheelies on his 4 wheeler and my son looked at him and said i can do what i want and stuck his tounge out at him. I of course sent him to his room but his grandma says i need to stop because its just making him more rebellious im like no maybe you should start punishing him so that way he sees all adults as authority figures
Lisa·
Uhm, lol. When i was a kid, we were in town and i threw a fit. Everyone drove home, my mom stayed home with me and my brother and dad went back shopping. And when my brother would get an attitude the same happened. 🤷🏻 thats parenting done right. Ignore her and tell her to mind her own.