@niki664 have birth defects and slowly die do you knkw what the he'll your talking about?? That's not true so you think every baby that came before 40 weeks is slowly dieing and has problems I was born before 40 weeks I'm healthy as ever and have been for 21 years

@niki664, well that is just wildly inaccurate. My twins came on their own at 33 weeks. They’re in nicu, but thriving and getting stronger every day. They certainly aren’t dying. Neither are my two toddlers that were born in the 38th week. 🤦🏻‍♀️

Exactly. I had my baby at 23 weeks and i would’ve given EVERYTHING to have him full term. 😞

@niki664, same here babe

@niki664, 💕

@niki664, don’t take stuff to heart babe I got what u meant I think u experienced something and felt strongly about it when u brought up the dying and the other stuff I don’t think u meant it that way as they took it.

Agree ! I see no need to want to induce without a medical reason . Babies should be left to cook as long as they need ❤️

@jenny955, I was born at six months im okay to 🤷🏽‍♀️

My sister wouldve loved to have her babies full term instead she had her twins at 24 weeks. One passed and the other is 8 months old and still on oxygen.

@amysbabies, ok

@nachely12, well how could someone possibly make their baby come before 35 weeks? I guess the post just confused me in general.

@amysbabies, I stated that.

People don’t just decide to have their babies early. They have to for medical reasons, and you bet they are happy! They are happy that their baby is alive and well, rather than having to be stillborn if they waited later.

@jenny955, I understand yea don’t want your baby here before it’s time but with some it can’t be helped I understand some women on here r special as hell but you don’t really have any control over them and they gonna do what they want so it’s best to not stress over them even if you do feel sorry for the baby what can you do about it

@katt82 lol right! That's messed up to say

@jenny955, thank you girl I was like wtf I have to have my baby at 36 weeks so you telling me my baby is gonna slowly die who tells anyone that smh

@niki664, well that is just wildly inaccurate. My twins came on their own at 33 weeks. They’re in nicu, but thriving and getting stronger every day. They certainly aren’t dying. Neither are my two toddlers that were born in the 38th week. 🤦🏻‍♀️

@laniejay, same. It’s not easy only seeing my babies once a day.

@angelfoodcake, naw my baby is fine love she just had to get antibiotics I was just saying the extra days she stayed it was painful to have not been able to bring her home so I can’t even fathom the thought of having to see your baby going through something for months

@bitchcraft right I agree. And praying for your little one @nachely12

@niki664 yeah they shouldn't try to have their baby early but you can't sit there and say that about every baby that is born before 40 weeks

@niki664 have birth defects and slowly die do you knkw what the he'll your talking about?? That's not true so you think every baby that came before 40 weeks is slowly dieing and has problems I was born before 40 weeks I'm healthy as ever and have been for 21 years

@uglymombeautifulboy0910, man it’s just crazy and I know sometimes there’s complications in pregnancy but my goodness I can’t with some of these ladies 🤷🏻‍♀️

Shittttt, I wish my son stayed in my tummy longer than 33 weeks but he wanted out, my water broke on it's own when I got right outside the hospitals entrance

@laniejay, yes babe I understand I cried every night and would drive an hour away for those days just to b with my baby she wasn’t a premie they just had to give her antibiotics because I had a fever in labor so they wanted to make sure she was ok but when I tell u I couldn’t bear seeing her there

@niki664, yes I understand certain circumstances where it’s needed or baby comes and u have no control over the problem but yes it’s sad and I wish that upon no one I mean my baby was late and I had a fever during labor and my daughter had to stay an extra 7 days in the hospital because they gave her antibiotics just Incase any infection was occur in and I cried every night like a baby that I couldn’t have her home with me and that’s me giving birth at 41 weeks +2

I would have ripped my body to shreds and taken all the pain in the world to have kept my preemie baking.

I have to step away. I just can’t with that.