My mother spends ZERO time with family (in our house it's my mother, grandmother and my two kids plus me) she always always makes excuses like shes too tired or she just wants to relax and watch TV in her room. But yet she can make time for a damn date!! 🤬🤬😡😡 She makes me hate her more and more and more. I honestly wish I never moved here.... it's been nothing but stress and heartache. My own mother doesn't act like one at all. 😭😭
@scruffy.nerf.herder 😂😂😂😂 She doesnt at all help raise my children. Not one bit. She doesn't do anything around this house at all. It's only me who does. She won't even take care of her own mother when she is sick. So no there is absolutely no slack to be given.
Maybe she’s tired because of the hectic household she has. It’s easier for grandparents to be the “doting grandma” when they don’t have to help raise their grandchild day in and day out. Be grateful for having a place to live, and maybe cut her a little slack.
@pink1880 wow, thats messed up of her😒😑💔 I'm sorry you have to deal with this, I pray everything gets better soon for you mama ❤️
@uglymombeautifulboy0910 Yes!! That's exactly what she says!! Or eating dinner together is enough. My boyfriend says that she is more a roommate than family and that is exactly how I feel. She wouldn't even take care of her own mother when she was sick. I did it all. I'm tired of constantly have to do ever single thing because she just doesn't care about anyone else.
@pink1880 neither does my mom😑 she's never even met my son, & he is her 1st grandchild 😒 i can't wait till my child(ren) have kids cause I know I'm always be in their life as long as I live😍.. you can live in the same house as the person and still feel very distant from the person and that's because of the time spent together, my hubby & I had this problem before my son was born, before he was even thought of, his excuse was "well we live together so technically were spending time together".. there's a huge difference from living together and actually spending time together ❤️ some people don't realize it but those who care enough do❤️ it took me packing my shit and leaving for him to actually realize. I pray your mom comes around for you and your family 😘❤️
FTM problems...
So I've made it pretty clear that I want to buy my daughter her fist Halloween costume. Her babysitter/nanny keeps saying she wanted to make her one. I told her yesterday that I wanted to find her something that my SO and I could dress up as a family. So I told her I am going to get it. She just text me and said 'not trying to step on your toes but I bought her two costumes'. She does this all the time. Anytime I want to do the "first" things with her she immediately does it. It...
😠 while talking to my mother in law on the phone, my toddler decided to shove her hand in the painting I was making for my son. My mother in law thought this was pretty funny, she laughed several times.
Thinking she is off her meds!

is it wrong to be frustrated that my daughter acts like she can't do certain things with out my help. she plays dumb a lot and I wish I could be like no girl show what you know. she acts like she can't trace or match shapes so shes ask for "mommy finger" to help her so I barely hold her hand and she magically can do it but if I dont hold her hand she just scribbles and acts like she doesnt know
the pic is how she traces when I'm "helping her" otherwise it'll just be scribbles all over the page

My whole heart She Lived For 3 hours before she took her last breath mommy’s butterfly I’ll always love u !!!!
@scruffy.nerf.herder I literally am the only one who takes care of anything around this house. I cook and clean and take care of everyone. My grandma cant do anything herself at all so I do it all. The other day I took my kids swimming came home about 6pm thinking well theyve already eaten oh nope my mother wouldnt even come out of her room to even help my grandma with a sandwich. All my mother does is sleep and be on her phone. I am not even exaggerating at all. I wish I was.