This is weekend #3 that my SO hasn’t really spent any time with me or our daughter. He’s off tomorrow and Monday and I asked if he had plans for tomorrow and he’s apparently gonna now the yard. He mowed last weekend and it’s really not even grew since then. Is it bad that I’m irritated at this? Like I just feel like he doesn’t want to do anything with us here lately.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
I posted the day before yesterday about my friend.. & well....... her fiancé came over, AND she came alone 😐 we eat sit around and after awhile my husband takes him to the back & the next thing I know he’s coming in the house with a weird look on his face, asking her if there was something he should know, I instantly gets up just in case someone turns into a maniac....... well long story short he cried & told her how disloyal she is & how disappointed he was.. she’s crying asking me why would I do that.. I’m like 🤷🏽 ♀ it wasn’t right........ Our other friends are saying that he’s giving her a hard time and that he sleeping on the couch, not eating her food and won’t talk to her.. she’s not talking to me (of course) & I now feel like we could have handled it in a different manner ... idk seeing a grown man cry like he did was just heart breaking!
Going away for the weekend. Husband’s useless lol Ok so we live in PA and are headed up to the pocono’s for the weekend with our 2 boys (ages 5&3) and my fil. Does anyone else’s husband seem pretty useless when it comes to packing and getting everything in order for going away?!? Not only do I have to pack for everyone, my husband laid out what he’s going to take, but this am he’s texting me asking him to run all these errands. Like seriously wtf dude!! I could have done all that yesterday while my kids were at school but no he asks the day we are leaving. I still have some laundry to do and have to pack. I told him no I’m not running to the bank or going to text supermarket to pick up a cake for his dads bday. It’s tomorrow so we will celebrate then. Also I asked him yesterday did u even get your dad a card? He’s like no I’ll just get it tomorrow or u can if you’re going out!! Ugh sorry I’m rambling but I’m just annoyed. He’s working till about 11am it’s now about 8:50am and I have to get it all done by the time he gets home so we can leave ASAP!!!
Ugh my boyfriend makes me so mad 😡😡😡😡. After I cooked dinner for him. He gets home takes one bite and he's like "i don't like it I'm not eating" like wtf really
tired mom·
Мама сына (1 год)
I would feel the same way. Maybe bring it up to him and ask him why he’s being distant? Maybe he might need some alone time. Idk. Men can act weird sometimes lol
Mama Vee 🌻·
No, you have every right to feel that way! You definitely should bring it up & see what he says. Let him know how it bothers you.
Little Mommy ·
I mean how long does it take to mow the yard? That seems like not a big deal to me if he’s going to have the entire rest of the weekend free for just an hour or two to do normal yard work but maybe your yard is bigger than mine lol. But of course if you feel he is avoiding spending time with the family definitely tell him how you feel... I have the same problem with hubby sometimes when he works till after DD’s bedtime every day during the week and then has “guy stuff” like going shooting on the weekend...
Casey·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@tacos4lyfe, it’s not really the yard work that bothering me but I know afterwards he’s either gonna want to lay around on the couch or work on something in the carport which usually I’d be okay with but he just seems so distant lately that it’s bugging me lol