This is weekend #3 that my SO hasn’t really spent any time with me or our daughter. He’s off…
This is weekend #3 that my SO hasn’t really spent any time with me or our daughter. He’s off tomorrow and Monday and I asked if he had plans for tomorrow and he’s apparently gonna now the yard. He mowed last weekend and it’s really not even grew since then. Is it bad that I’m irritated at this? Like I just feel like he doesn’t want to do anything with us here lately.
tired mom·
Мама сына (1 год)
I would feel the same way. Maybe bring it up to him and ask him why he’s being distant? Maybe he might need some alone time. Idk. Men can act weird sometimes lol
Mama Vee 🌻·
No, you have every right to feel that way! You definitely should bring it up & see what he says. Let him know how it bothers you.
Little Mommy ·
I mean how long does it take to mow the yard? That seems like not a big deal to me if he’s going to have the entire rest of the weekend free for just an hour or two to do normal yard work but maybe your yard is bigger than mine lol. But of course if you feel he is avoiding spending time with the family definitely tell him how you feel... I have the same problem with hubby sometimes when he works till after DD’s bedtime every day during the week and then has “guy stuff” like going shooting on the weekend...
Casey·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@tacos4lyfe, it’s not really the yard work that bothering me but I know afterwards he’s either gonna want to lay around on the couch or work on something in the carport which usually I’d be okay with but he just seems so distant lately that it’s bugging me lol