So sorry you're dealing with this mama. No, this is NOT normal behavior for an expectant father. If my husband thought he was gonna pull some BS like that while I was pregnant I probably woulda murdered him!

Locks would be changed when he got home with that kind of behavior.

Why the hell is he going on a vacation without you? I’m sorry but all of his behavior would be huge red flags for me. No husband should be going out drinking all the time, and not telling you when he should be home. I rarely say this, but his stuff would be packed for him when he got home from his trip.

Sorry to say this but forget him! If the roles were reversed, I'm pretty sure he would trip on you. Sounds like he's young and haven't grew up. Start making plans without him. I'm kind of going through the same thing but worse. My so was drinking with friends and took pills. Got out of control. Long story short because I'm living with the in-laws and my baby. Cops came looking for my so because my so caused a disturbance at our home. So now that my mother in law got in between our situation and told her son to get another job, stop hanging with friends, and sleep in the room with her. It was all bad. So now that my bf hit rock bottom, he's crying to me and regrets everything because his mom and I put him out on the streets. I don't feel bad. Your dude will hit rock bottom one day to appreciate his family. I dunno when that will happen. Men are slow. It takes them a long time to do something stupid and lose everything. Sometimes it's too late. Us women don't want to deal with that stuff. Men need to see our worth all the time. Hang in there girl. You don't have to be alone. Reach out to his family. Never stay quiet.

Nope he’s being an asshole. He would rather go out and party than spend time with his family.

It isn't hormones and you aren't overreacting. Sounds like you are biting your tongue when you should be telling him straight up that you don't appreciate his behavior and lack of care for you and your children. He does need to grow up. Unfortunately, you did tell him he could go on the trip so it's a little late to be angry about that it change it, but you need to call him out on the saying he's on his way home and then being gone for hours still. Especially since it's clear that this is a pattern for him.

@preciouslove it’s for a vacation he asked me if he could go like a month back and I didn’t really want him to but I didn’t feel right telling him no so it’s his last “going out” thing because I keep telling him he’s gonna have to grow tf up once this baby come (even tho he should already be) I get it he’s young but my patience is low

He’s being very selfish! Is the trip something he really needs to do like for work or a vacation? If it’s for fun I’d definitely not be ok with it. Hormones or not you need him right now. My husband was this way a few years back but he’s gotten way better. Men mature later then women lol