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Robin Brown
Robin Brown
Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (34 нед.)

**Advice needed** So its a few days b4 my baby sprinkle/shower. Ive done everything myself and dont have a host 😕 my…

**Advice needed** So its a few days b4 my baby sprinkle/shower. Ive done everything myself and dont have a host 😕 my bestfriend was supposed to be in charge and has done nothing at all. Kinda got me feeling some type of way...my pride wont let me ask her if she can still host for me..what would you do?

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db413

Dani B

Мама сына-младенца

@robin080109, tell me about it. My so called best friend stopped hanging out with me because I can’t go out drinking with her like I use to

efesmama

Mama Efe

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@robin080109, smdh. Have the conversation girl

robin080109

Robin Brown

Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (34 нед.)

@efesmama dropping the ball w/no follow up. Wks ago I said something abt whats the plan & she kinda laughed it off. My MIL was the one covering all expenses & she knew that. So I dont know what the deal is

efesmama

Mama Efe

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@robin080109, my thing is you dropped the ball, so what are you going to do about it? If she was saying I dropped the ball on a

Big event but I was thinking of coordinating a few people to meet us at a restaurant, that would at least show intent to do something. But if you just dropped the ball with no solution that’s a fail for me

robin080109

Robin Brown

Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (34 нед.)

@efesmama yea really!

efesmama

Mama Efe

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@robin080109, no no no that definitely warrants a sit down

efesmama

Mama Efe

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@robin080109, wait she said what?

robin080109

Robin Brown

Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (34 нед.)

@db413 oh no. Im questioning if either of my bf will show up. Things change with friends once things in your life start chnaging

robin080109

Robin Brown

Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (34 нед.)

@efesmama She texted the night b4 and said Oh I guess I dropped the ball with the baby shower. Because Ive been upset and have a lot on my plate. I didnt address it at that time

robin080109

Robin Brown

Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (34 нед.)

@zoeysmom28 oky. Exactly how I feel

householdceo

Kristen

Мама троих детей

Your the host now girl not her. I agree with the first comment as well. Then at a time it won't ruin your day ask her what's the deal.

db413

Dani B

Мама сына-младенца

My sister and my best friend were suppose to plan and host mine. But they wouldn’t tell me anything. They wouldn’t even tell me what day it was or who was invited. I finally got it out of my best friend. And they planned it for a weekend I was extremely busy. So I ended up planning and hosting my own. And my best friend didn’t even show up.

efesmama

Mama Efe

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It’s 2018, host your own shower. But, if she really is your friend, and she knows the preparations you’ve done, then you should have a talk with her. Because if she’s done nothing with you but is planning with others, then you may be making an assumption in which case it would be an awesome surprise for you. If she hasn’t done anything at all and had no plans to, you need to ask her why as your best friend she wouldn’t want to plan this for you.

sara_elizabeth2014

Sara

Мама сына (3 года), беременна (32 нед.)

I totally agree with @zoeysmom28, letting her host will be like giving her credit for something she didn’t do.

zoeysmom28

Tamara

Мама дочки (1 год)

If you planned it by yourself && done everything by yourself, I wouldn’t ask her. Because I’m sure she knew before hand this was what was asked of her. Letting her be the host is like letting her take the credit for putting something together that she technically didn’t. Just my opinion. @robin080109

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?