I don’t know if it’s just me but after I had my d&c I feel sad and not cute. I’m not saying I am cute in any shape or…

@penelope127, yeah I only joined yesterday because one of my aunts mentioned it to me. And already I’ve met so many amazing women on here that share a similar story. And it’s been helping me feel a bit better.

@lillybud37, feel free to talk about it here. You’ll find many amazing women that have gone through the same thing with similar stories.

@penelope127, I’ve been feeling sad and crying for almost 2 weeks now. I try to talk to my fiancé about it but it’s hard when he hasn’t been through this before and neither have I. Every time I try talking to other people about it they all say the same thing. They all say I’m sorry for what you’re going through I don’t know what that’s like. Or something similar to that. I find that talking to people who have been through it helps. Because then I don’t feel so alone. But nobody I know talks about it.

@lillybud37, I was just really sad for a couple of days. I just laid in bed and cried it out, and that helped me so much to grieve. You lost a baby. That’s not something to take lightly. Talking about it to my spouse, mom, and close friends helped me get through it. Also even just posting about it on boards like this to hear other woman’s stories. It made me feel like I wasn’t the only one.

@jessig2006, Thanks. It’s hard when most people in your life don’t know what I’m going through. Or don’t talk about it if it has happened. I wish more people would talk about it.

Our first loss was natural and second medically assisted but still ended naturally. Our third needed two d&c's and two rounds of Cytotec and took 4 full months to complete. It definitely changes you and the way you feel and are yourself. Please know that you did nothing wrong. There are people here who you can talk to about what you're feeling and what's going on even if it's just to talk about the weather. There are alot of hard days. It takes a long time to heal. And you can take however long you need to physically, mentally and emotionally heal. There is no right or wrong way to do it. We are here to offer love and support. You are not alone. I am so very sorry for your loss. You are beautiful. You are a mother. I know it doesn't feel like it now but you will smile again. You will laugh. And you will heal. A little piece of you will always be missing. But there will be sunny days again.