Just kicked my husband out. Not sure to cry or sigh in relief. Been together 6 years. He had a drug problem that we've been working on. He left and spent 6 months with his mom to get him out of the area. we talked every day and video chatted. He claimed he was better. So he came back 1 week ago. And I've already caught him in a lie. I said I told him the condition when he came back. He didn't listen so I told him I'm done that our daughter comes first. I'm just so sad that he couldn't put our daughter first.
I understand wanting to be there for who you love. But as a former user of 11 years I know how sick I was, how manipulative, how destructive, and how terrible it was for the people in my life. Especially my children. I personally feel when it comes to addiction it's all in or all out bc the middle ground is active use.