So I'm married, will be 6 years in September. I'm happily married too. *important info*
At work there's this guy. We're friends, we genuinely get along. He'll come to my area to avoid doing his job. We typically talk about my husband and kids, I ask him about the new girls he's talking to. Where we talk is the central location. We have never talked in private. I don't have his phone number or social media contracts. We literally only talk In that one central spot infront of everyone.
Because of this my coworker told him to watch out. That sometimes married women have a habit of straying and he doesn't want to get caught up in that. That she (and "everyone else") doesn't like me and I'm annoying...
Wtf. I'm married so i can't talk to a man without me trying to cheat on my husband??
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@newlyironman, hmmmm, I understand. But I’m the type that HAS to same something (horrible I know) so if you were ever talking to him and she was around I would be like “Well, I would continue this conversation but I wouldn’t want ppl to think I was trying to get with you. You know how ppl just love to gossip!”
Be better than me 😂
@mojobebe part of me wants to address it and part of me doesn't want to dignify it with a response. She's that ultra fake sweet type that addressing something with would backfire.
Sounds like she is jealous he was giving you some attention even though that attention was strictly platonic. Has he stopped coming around/talking to you? Since they already don’t like you, give them another reason to hate you, tell them to keep your name out their mouths and keep it it moving. All things can be said professionally of course but those are the types of rumors that need to be addressed and not brushed off.
Wtf that's some messed up shit. Kinda sounds like my husband, I told him I wanted to hang out with the girl I used to work with. She's divorced and he told me watch out divorced chicks like to talk their married friends out their marriage. I was like WTH?!
Wow that’s really messed up. It seems like it’s a problem for her and not a problem for you. 🤷🏼♀️
There are people who aren’t capable of having friendships with people of the opposite sex. They can’t fathom that some people are capable of it. It’s ridiculous
Having an affair requires 2 willing participants- unless you’re like Tony Stark or something and can use superpowers to woo him unknowingly.... ohh wait...
Coworker sounds like a bitch. She doesn’t like you so she can’t stand to see that someone does (in a friendly way) 🙄
That Co worker probably likes him ...and Is jealous ..your not hiding talking to your Co worker
Sounds innocent to me . No harm in talking to male friends
I often get along with men more than women. Been this way all my life. I was actually at a kids party last Saturday without my husband and was talking to a couple, but mostly to the husband. He was in the same profession of my husband. Did that mean I wanted to sleep with him? NO. It was just conversation. I don’t understand why people think that getting along with the opposite sex means you have other motives.
This lady sounds jealous and spiteful and even though you don’t want to say anything, I think you should.