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katrina ploszay
dandilioncalalilly
katrina ploszay·Мама сына (6 лет)
I’m in so much pain I just want to go home and hurt. The hospital doesn’t even know why they r just guessing. But if I left and something happened my baby and I could die. I just gotta make it. I have no choice. But I still just wanna sleep in my own bed with my puppies. Next Tuesday is my csection then heal 4 days. Can’t waitto go home. This baby better love me. Or I’ll cry forever. Idk how people expect me to have more than 1 kid. Not sure how I’m going to make it through this one. And the hard part hasn’t even started. He will be in nicu for at least 2 weeks. I’m so mad at my body making the placenta and blood cord wrong. I could have protected him and he wouldn’t need to be in the nicu. We wouldn’t have to be preparing to fight for his life. I’ll be glad pregnancy is done but sad because now it will be his turn to fight. I wish I could just do it for him like normal moms with normal pregnancies. I’d go through all the pain and discomfort in the world for him to not have to go through the fight, pain, struggles, medical things he is about to. I have such conflicting feelings.
14.08.2018
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buneeh
Buneeh ·Мама двоих (6 лет, 28 лет)
My friend went into premature labor and delivered at 25 weeks. Her baby luckily was born able to breathe on his own. But he will be in NICU for 5 months. It will be hard to watch the fight, but your baby is pretty far along and will probably do well despite having to go to NICU. Stay positive.
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dandilioncalalilly
katrina ploszay·Мама сына (6 лет)
Thank you. You words helped better than my counselor I saw yesterday. I need a better counselor but she’s the only one that will do in home and hospital counseling since I can’t got anywhere
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techie_grrl
L·Мама двоих (7 лет, 9 лет)
I can relate to this, as I'm just on the other side of what you're about to be going through. My baby decided to come at 34 weeks, no warning. I'd been high risk due to my health (lupus) and due to a CHD that they noticed while in utero. The uncertainty is terrible. I was so angry at my body for being unable to just "do what it's supposed to" and keep him inside a bit longer. He spent 79 days in the NICU, and the tidal wave of emotions that I went through as I watched him go through surgery, breathing issues, coding once... It was insane. But I came to see how strong these babies are. And I reminded myself that if he, the one who is fighting for his life, can be so strong... Then so can I. It's okay to cry and be angry(God knows I did), but you have to come out from that feeling and do what must be done for your baby. And I promise you, that baby is going to love you more than anything. You're the momma, and no one can love and care for him the way that his momma does. Try to breathe. Relax. It's a new adventure, but you got it!
15.08.2018 Нравится Ответить
angikay
Angi Kay·Мама двоих (4 года, 6 лет)
I'm so sorry youre going through this. I havent responded to any of your posts, but I read every one of thwm that I come across. Youre having such a hard time and I hate it for you and for baby. God bless y'all. Stay strong !! Put all your faith in the Lord , and know that everything will be alright. If you ever need someone to talk to . just know im here.
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